just thought it let you know...

[Slinky Sarah]

Well guys its been an emotional 3 weeks for me and the OH. As it stands we are no longer TTC. The loss of our baby has hit my OH very very hard, and he is having trouble comming to terms with it....i havent even really hit the bottom yet....jsut the tip of the emotions i know there are more in there, im just numb most of the time. We arent even at the stage to really have sex anymore let alone think about trying again. WE are at the stage now where there could well be something wrong but nothing will get looked into unntil i loose again, and atm neither of us are strong enough to take loosing another child. So for now we are just trying to deal with everything and im just trying to help my OH through everything right now.
Just thought i would let you know in case you were wondering what was happening. Im sure we will be back here soon enough....but i think we need to concentrate on ourselfs for now

 

[evemarie8]

Take care of yourselves hun, and come back anytime you need some good shoulders to cry on!! I really hope you can help each other through this sad time and come out of the other side stronger whether you decide to try again or not. I wish you all the love and luck in the world, don't be a stranger

 

[Slinky Sarah]

well ill still be about.... (if truth be known im oh so slightly addicted to this forum lol). It is sucha support for me...atm its hard tot alk to OH about it so its great to come on here and know you have some one to talk to that has (unfortunatly too) gone through it.
And of course i need to see who gets there long awaited BFPs

 

[evemarie8]

It is hard to resist the forum isn't it!! I must admit when we had our m/c a couple of years back OH was the one person I really couldn't talk to, he just wanted to try and forget it had ever happened. But I did find that loads of the women in my life had been through the same thing, it's funny how you don't find out their stories until it happens to you!

 

[mummykay]

hugs for u Sarah

 

[skairdykat]

Take care of yourselves hun

 

[MrsBrightside]

Just wanted to send you both some hugs!!!

 

[kazlin]

Have lots of hugs sweetheart

 

[sarah113]

 

[Pinky38]

My hubby was the same would not talk to me but broke down at work trying to explain why he was off!!!
He is now great about it and finally said congrats to my much younger bro who is expecting his 1st next Jan!!!! That is hard for us both !!!!
Hope we all get the BFP's we want soon

 

[jemz24]

aw hun i hope everything gets better for you i kno m/c can hit ppl very strongly. take your time hun grief doesnt have a time limit. you kno there are girls ere if u wanna chat. Take care of yourselves

 

[A&J]

 

[Mum_2besoon]

So sorry

 

[LucyBee]

from me too Sarah. xx

 

[zebrastripes]

awww

 

[Slinky Sarah]

thanks for your hugs and support everyone.....im sure we will be back at it soon....its starting to hit me a little more today...think i better post in loss section not here though .....

 

[tuck]

I hope that you both manage to get through this, on the positive side though it will probably do you both good to actually spend time as a 'couple' without the constant strain of TTC. relax and enjoy each other,

 

[EllieBelle]

Lots & Lots of to you both!!!

 

[sandee]

I will pray for your healing...hope to see you back! Take care!

 

[*CLAIREBEAR*]

im so so sorry for your loss sarah,i have never lost a baby but very recently lost my only sister and also needed some time away from ttc to concentrate on myself.
thinking of you both and wishing you lots of love,claire x x x x