Just my luck!

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I have an amazing oh. But in march he's moving 2 and a half hours away! I am literally heart broken! We get on so well and I am falling for him so badly. He tries to act like he doesn't feel the same but I just know he does. He's the most amazing person I have ever had in my life and he's leaving. I don't know whether to enjoy him for 2 more months and get more attached or tell him I can't do it and just leave? Help me! X


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Oh chick that's a tough one :( I'm not sure what I would do.. I would say enjoy the 2months, but like you say, that's getting more attached x
 
I really don't know what id do Hun is it not at all possible you could stay together? x
 
Yeah would you not fancy long distance? It would be hard but it would be possible if you were both going to put in for it x
 
ahh honey thats annoying. always to bloody good to be true eh! i think i would enjoy him, then maybe by the time it comes to move he will turn around on his way to moving and confess undying love for you and take you with him or stay :) (if only fairytales were true and men actually thought like that eh!) x
 
oh nooo! i would say dont get too attatched if there is no chance you can stay together. But then again, if hes that amazing, how could you keep away for 2 month? with most of us, heart always wins over head hun x

just a thought tho.. why couldnt you stay together? I lived in sweden and had a relationship with an englishman, it worked for almost 1.5 years and then i moved to england. (thats why im here) it only lasted a year with him here tho.
so its not impossible
xx
 
I started seeing my OH for 3 months before I moved up with him and that was a 3 and a half hour train journey! If you're that amazing then it's worth it sweetie x it's hard but worth it!
 
I'd love to stay with him but I wouldn't see him. I have liv to think about and I can't be dragging her about on long drives. Urgh!!!! Life is so hard! X


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Hey... It is hard but it is possible, me and oh got together when i was 16 and he was 18, i live in north wales and him based in devon with work! We have done long distance for the last 5 nearly 6 years. We do see each other every weekend now but at first it was once a month if that. But understand completely your in a more difficult situation with your daughter, hope u can sort something out with him xxx
 
My now HUSBAND (the possibilities) seen each other for a while long distance 1-2hr drive depending on traffic I made him do all the trips lol! And now we are married 5 years after moving in together married 2yrs 3 yrs this august xxx
 
I 'dragged' DD on a couple of 3 hour train journeys when I was seeing OH.
 
I 'dragged' DD on a couple of 3 hour train journeys when I was seeing OH.

I'm sorry I didn't mean it in a horrible way. She doesn't get on with the car at all and crys 99% of the time x


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