JJ's New Cunning Plan to TTC her last baby

[JJ Mum]

Hello ladies,

I am afraid technically I am leaving the lovely world of IVF behind me, I shall not be returning to it, either way.. I have a new master plan cooking...which for me being an old bird , may have a slightly higher chance of sucess.

I had a telephone consultation last night with Mr Pickles from the BMI Heathcare hosp in Nottingham, He does Tubal repairs in ladies like me.. I have a little tweeking to do on the money, they have a 6mth interest free hosp plan to pay for op, which will buy me a little time, and this would be the totally last money we will ever be forking out for baby making.. I am scheduled to have my op on monday 19th november in less than 5 weeks!!! We have , a tiny bit of oh childcare/work clash issues for one night, and I will stay in two nights and then have to have hubby and Devon drive up there after school run and then collect and drive me home , not enougth hours in day to get back before kids, so not sure, surgeon was overly happy with me getting taxi and then train home...so not sure how at mo, but but other those issues, it's all looking positive at mo...

Guess what this surgeon cuts into your tummy reopening the c-section scar and then through the tummy muscles etc layers , but not the Uterus, he doesn't even touch it!! Amazing news for me, as usa clinic and all the others I looked at before inc uk consultant local I saw who refered me for ivf all cut the uterus too.. So if he was able to reconnect either or both tubes, (depending on amount missing, then if I was lucky enougth to fall preg, then I would not have to worry much more than anyone being on their 5 baby after 4 sections, as my uterus has been healed now 21 mths... I couldn't believe it when I found that bit out... That's a huge risk weight off my mind..

Do you know, I will do this, it will stuff us more financially than I have already, it's slightly less than one cycle of ivf, but gives endless chances, esp with mc rate higher at my age.... It really may not work, but it will almost right a wrong for me, regardless of the outcome. I can say to my conscience, that I fully tried everything to sort out my stupid mess, and then what will be , will be, either result... and if it fails to get me my last baby, I can move on more acceptingly.

I need to check if it's 4 or 6 weeks off driving with inureance company tomorow as it will cause me alot of issues with kids activitives exp towards xmas and my good (fellow mums doing same clubs etc - mates don't know what ive been upto and will find it odd , that I'm not driving nor cycling the kids to things.... hummmm tricky.. maybee I should tell them, but this has been my secret for soo long now, I don't know where to start.... they might be annoyed I didn't tell them.. they are good mates..

Hubby also agreed to start his wellman conception vitamins at the weekend, I get his and her tablets out to have with dinner each day..... bless him, he actually doesn't even want anymore kids, he finds 4 very stressful..... he wanted to stop at 2, but he knows how badley I want this for me and Devon..

I posted off a request for a copy of histology report if one was made, to see how much tube was cut out , takes ages, in fact it took ages for the form itself to arrive!! You have to pay for it, but hopefully it might arrive back before op as it can be canceled just 48hrs before! with no payment made if I find, actually I have only 1cm tubes left!

I came on tonight, due on tomorow, so maybee I could gently ttc if not too sore , not this month, but after op in november cycle?

So anyway - arghhh excited......

 

[jojo3972]

Wow Jen ur so brave going through the I've and now this I just want to say I wish u all the luck in the world and I realy hope this works for you I realy realyyyy do and all the other bits n peices will fall into place I'm sure and maybe telling ur mates is a gd idea cos u may need some help and u will need gd friends around you so yes tell the ones u trust excited fr ya xxx

 

[Rowesb]

You are one determined mamma! Good luck Xxx

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[JJ Mum]

Ahh thanks JoJo and Rowesb XX

I see your ttc again soon Rowesb - yayyy good luck to you too X

JoJo, see we really can be up the duff together still , us old gals....X

 

[BabyBrain]

Omg that sounds great! And once it's done it's done, no relying on labs and other people you can just ttc as normal. Really hope your histology comes back with good news sweetie xxxxxxxx

 

[jojo3972]

Bloody well hope so Jen hehe I'm dpo2 today I had realy bad ov pains this cycle with using the soy cd3-7 never felt it that bad before so the soy realy does do summet down there just hope the sperm meets the egg n they are happy together n full of super glue lol I have a gd feeling for you , did u see the lady in ttc section had a reversal n she caught first cycle xx

 

[bidsy]

wow you are one determined lady. I hope it goes well and like you said once its done its done you can try as normal good luck xxx

 

[KirstyB]

Good Luck JJ ,
That sounds like a right mission . x

 

[Princess81]

Really hope it works for you JJ - I love your determination. Really hope you get your last little bean to complete the family. Sounds like you have a wonderful hubby too x

 

[hayels]

Good luck jj really hope this works for you. Xxx

 

[cosmicgirl]

All the luck in the world hun x

 

[JJ Mum]

Thanks Hayels and Cosmic XX

Iv'e got a stonker of a period this month, my lining must have been very nice in there this month- what a waste for my blastobaby... so I won't miss this when I'm preg! ha ha

 

[JJ Mum]

Well I got a booklet and confirmation paperwork from the bmi park hosp in nottingham today, it's all very bumphy and not alot else in it, the bit I was looking for was the map, directions , travel bit, and it was nothing, the smallest map possible! I will have to do some more research on how to get there, looks liked you can coach up there ok , maybee the day before would work better as long trip like that, not sure about trains yet, need to find out where train stn is , bus stn etc to see how much a taxi would be. We have issues on way home, so was thinking of doing the same home, but not sure as coaches have really high steps up at the front to get on!! not good with section type wounds!! Hubby wants to pick me up but with only 5 hours of school , and prob at least 6 hours trip, maybee more with stops for devon etc, not sure how to work that... I could tell my two good mum mates and ask if my kids can go there or I could give them keys for the day... Now there older, I let them stay at home for an hour or so if I'm nipping out to the local shops etc, but not any distance or early evenings... gulp...

Well more thinking needed on that one , but exciting none the less..
Just want a good reply from the records dept at hosp on tubal lengths and also a good reply from the hospital staggered payment scheme, and were off...

 

[BabyBrain]

so exciting!!!!!! xxxxxxxx

 

[russellmuscle]

Good luck JJ you are so brave!

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[JJ Mum]

Thanks Russel Muscle - can't believe your ticker says your already 31 weeks!!! how fast did that go.....

Well oh got approved for the hosptal credit/payment plan thingy!! yayyyyyy we have two cards waiting to use for this treatment.

I chased the hospital records dept, and my notes are with the matron apparently for auth to be released to me, and then they will email me and then I pay £10 to £50 for copys by phone and then they post to me, but they have said they could read them out over phone in my case, as I'm a desperate lady and I don't have the 40 days wait time........ then if good news I can pay for op and book coach , and if not, learn to move on.. arghhhh not getting much sleep at mo.....

Trying to get xmas and Devons bday sorted too (jan 6th), as if it goes ahead, I won't be insured to drive till new years eve!l

 

[Rowesb]

don't you just love it when a plan comes together

 

[JJ Mum]

don't you just love it when a plan comes together

And as for you Rowesb!!!!! yayyyy I'm loving the fact your now up the duff too.... hope to see you in Tri 1 by xmas....

 

[ZMD]

Really hope this works for you hun. Fingers crossed for you! xx

 

[Kay Kay]

Hey JJ, I must have missed this sorry hun!! Sounds like a good plan, wishing you all the luck in the world for baby number 5! xxxxxx