Is this enough time?

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  1. charlene09

    charlene09 Well-Known Member

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    Well me and My Oh have been together for 1 year 4 months , Do you think this is a long enough realtionship to TTC x
     
  2. Piglet10

    Piglet10 Well-Known Member

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    yes ... my mum always tells me ... only have a baby if you could honestly do it on your own as you could be married ten years and split.... you just need to be sure you could be a single mum if you had to!?! if the answer is yes then get bonking!! thats what she told me anyway!! :D xxx
     
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    charlene09 Well-Known Member

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    Haha Thankyou , Yes i will be able to handle being a single mum :) .. But I dont think it will come to this as my OH wants a baby just as much as me he takes vitamins and everything and gos for runs to increase the chance of conceiving lol
     
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    awww thats good.... men that are good with kids r soooo attractive arent they?!?!?! dont forget the more practicing the fresher and more sperm he makes!?!? :D good luck ttc huni xxxx
     
  5. Princess81

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    Only if you feel ready. Like lisa said you do have to be able to do it by yourself if you have to but if you don't feel like you are ready for it then I wouldn't rush in. Then that's coming from me who's waited 7 yrs. My friend and her ex were together 9 years, all was good. They got married and she got preggers shortly after, whilst she was preg he dumped her for another girl. So goes to show, it doesn't matter how long you wait, if it's gonna be a balls up then it doesn't matter how long you wait.
     
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    I was only with my OH a year and a bit when we TTC our 1st together. Were on number 2 now and we still go from stregth to strenght, were very 'tight' (even tho he does my head in at times) Its not about how long you have been together, its about how you feel :hug: xx
     
  7. charlene09

    charlene09 Well-Known Member

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    Yes i find them so attractive :)

    Lisa do you have any tips on conceiving , Even though i'm 18 It seems to be taking forever!
     
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    charlene09 Well-Known Member

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    Yes that's what i thought , But i just get suspicious about what other people will say , but as long as we feel ready and we love eachother then i suppose other people dont matter :) lol xx
     
  9. Piglet10

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    ooohhh missy your only 18!!! is there nothing you and oh wanna do before you settle down??? fly your wings?? travel?? career?? just have fun?? im not trying to put you off but be sure before you settle down so young. i am also young (23) but i think i did everything i wanted... as for tips... legs up after sex.... and always be accurate of your dates.... theres loads of things you can do/try but if youve only just started ttc then it may take a month or two!! :D xxxx
     
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    Im on my 4th month of ttc now :( and no we just want to settle down , we love children not alcohol lol xx
     
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    i was 22 when i had my first and i hadn't even been on a plane. I've still never been on a girly holiday or been to a casino etc but i reckon there's time for all that stuff later xx
     
  12. Sam's Mum

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    I think the stability of your relationship is far more important than the length of time you've been together... as long as you can support a child financially of course :)
     
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    charlene09 Well-Known Member

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    Thankyou :) .. & Thats what i was thinking , we are in a very stable relationship and my OH has a Job :) £300 a week though is that enough to support a baby x
     
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    It all depends on how much you're spending every month, not just what you're earning, but I assume you've gone through all that already and worked out how much you have left over after rent, bills etc x
     
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    yer thats enough to support a baby :)
    i think its so nice that he is like that!! shows good quality in a man!! i dont think it is too soon im 21 and pregnant with my third i never wanted to go out and party ect . . . i consieved my first at 18 and took 7 months so chin up! x x x x
     
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    Yes we have :)

    Im sure we will manage we have the support of our families and parents aswell :) Just for back up , only once in a while will we need that support
     
  17. Piglet10

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    toonlass!!!! you need to book a girly holiday!!! i will still be having mine anually... obv im missing this one but ill be on the next one!!! :D girly hols are amazing and the girls said if i dont want to leave bubs for as long as a week next year they will do a 4 day one for me!!! :D were going this october too but the whole family is going like 20 of us but we need bubs to put in an appearance were all waiting to boook pmsl... i do agree you can do a lot later too tho :D xxx
     
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    charlene09 Well-Known Member

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    Thankyou Evie :)

    I'm 18 19 in 2 weeks and he's 19 ,20 in 8 months :)
     
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    That's great :) It's nice to have family around for support too! Do they all live near you? x
     
  20. evie_smith

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    see you were older than me when i first consieved i turned 19 5 days after i have issabelle :) and been together longer then i had when ttc me and hubby have been togther 4 years now and on are third and we were talkin a year before that but i dont count it as it was only on the net lol
     

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