In Tears

[BabyLover]

awww em

I know exactly how you are feeling, I have been feeling the same for the last 4 years and it does get you down. Like this month I thought I was pregnant after been 5 days late (which I have never been late ever) and what happens the stupid witch get's me!! I was devestated and cried all day, but I pulled out of it and thought what will be will be! Maybe next month will be month, but I have come to the conculsion that will I ever be a mum? I don't want to go through IVF, I would love to have a baby normally...All I can say is chin up and look on te brightside, you are that late it sounds promising!

Go and get a blood test done and that would put your mind at ease, good luck hunni

Donna xxx

 

[flopsybunny]

Hiya,

I haven't read all the replies just your first post I just wanted to say that I hope that your body isn't showing enough hormones and you will get your . Your symptoms sound promising

It is so unfair that people who don't want kids appear to et them so easily, but I believe that everything happens for a reason. We will get our turn and are babies will me so much loved and appreciated when we do.

Good luck!

xx

 

[ema-lou24]

i decided not to test this morning, dont think i could handle it.

still no AF, AF twinges have gone and still getting CM.

booked for bloods on thursday.

thank you to everyone who took the time to reply to me xx

 

[Rowesb]

it all sounds really positive hun, hope the Drs can help on Thursday

 

[Rosie's Mummy]

I really hope you get some conclusive results

 

[rbryan0205]

just to let you all know my af came this morning so that means my cycle was 42 days long x

 

[louise280981]

rbryan sorry to hear that all the best for next month

ema good luck for thursday lovely!! when you planning to use the cbd? wed? got everything crossed for you its really strange your period is so late when your always on time bar a few days!!! the pains i had were also like af pains and really thought it was coming what with that wet feeling going on lol
thinking of you xx

 

[ema-lou24]

so gutted she got u rbryan...hope nxt month is your month.

thanks girls, im just so confused!

one minute im thinking im preggo, just taking a while to show, the nxt im thinking my body its just being nasty to me.
really do hope this is it, just got butterflies at the thought of it!!

was constipated earlier (tmi) and thought i felt AF came, but nope still clear x

 

[kellylou]

sorry to hear that rbryan fingers crossed for this month xx

 

[ema-lou24]

still no F
Still BFN

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!!!

 

[rbryan0205]

well why she hasnt arrived your still in with a chance x

 

[ema-lou24]

thats what i keep thinking. but its so frustrating not actually knowing if i am with child or if AF is just teasing me x

 

[Annie050408]

Oh hon, that's got to be so frustrating. Fingers crossed you get those 2 lines soon. xxx

 

[Flossie]

Hi Ema

I dont get on here as often as id like but I have seen some of your past posts, just wanting to wish you could luck and I hope all your symptoms are a good sign. I can understand how u feel about wanting this so much when some people dont appreciate what theyve got at all, keep your chin up xx

 

[sparkle82]

hi there ema lou
im new on here but have just been reading your posts & can see ur having the same agonising wait as me. im now 4 weeks late, have been ttc for 8 months, but 4 home tests & 1 blood test all come back neg. I feel pregnant! jst dont no whats goin on!!! I feel ur pain & hope u get the result your waiting for. think im resigned to the fact that my bodies playing a cruel trick!

 

[ema-lou24]

well i feel like an idiot now.

I got an earlier appointment to the docs at half 4 the day, and im just out the hosp.
went in, told him everything, wot kind of pains id been getting too, so he referred me to the gynae asap. so i went.
got there and they took a urine smple. sorry ms, u are not preggo. (all this from a urine sample, which i did at home). done an internal on me. couldnt find my womb!!! THEN send me home with antibiotics for a urine infection.

NO explanation to why im late
NO scans
No bloods taken either.

I was shoved out the door as quick as i arrived and made to feel like a complete fool for wasting there time.
So what ive been doing at home is exactly what they did. Only theyve gave me antibiotics.

IVE DONE NOTHING BUT CRY SINCE.
i feel like such an idiot. plus i still have no period.
they said if i still have the pains ive to go bk and ask for a scan.

still didnt get a yes or no answer to if im preggo, they just went by my urine test.

Is it possible to know if you preggo by an internal?

i feel pathetic. sore from internal and useless to OH.

right now id be happy to just disappear.
sorry for rant

 

[Rosie's Mummy]

No bloods?!? Is there a chance your GP would do a blood test? Im so miffed for you!

 

[Princess81]

Aaaw em - how awful of them! I maintain that if there is no af then you are still not out. I hate the way that the medical profession can make you feeel sometimes. I think you should go to your gp and insist on a blood test, if they are testing urine then of course they will get the same results that you do with urin - your wee isn't going to change just for them!!
Really feeling for you mrs, of course you aren't useless! big hugs xx

 

[stu]

first post and its gonna be a good one..

Ema-louise, dont cry..

i dont care what that hospital said or that they couldnt tell there left hand from there right.


I know you and your body better than you do sometimes and a urine infection isnt gonna make you 16 days late!

Having to sit there today, waiting to not be told anything is the hardest thing i have ever had to do. im ready for crying right now even thinking about it.

You are my whole life, everything to me and without you im nothing. YES i so badly want to be a daddy, and i so badly want us to fall pregnant but right now im just so happy to know ( well i presume this as the hospital didnt actually tell us anything we already didnt know! ) that your ok...

im not "down" with the forum lingo but i do beleve the fraze is.. your not out till the gets you...

well the F**kin AINT HERE YET

just keep and and those stupid HPT thingys that say no.....

love you babe.

 

[ema-lou24]

i just dont understand it at all.

im NEVER late! ever since the tender age ot 13yrs old when i started ive never been late apart from when i have been preggo.
Why now that we decided to TTC and then 8months into it, plat this trick on me!!? OH has been on computer since.
there is no possible way for a urine infection to make a PG test negative.

but from the internal (like a smear) can they tell from that if im preggo? they took swabs , then she was trying to "see that womb of mine" in her words, but she couldnt so then used a LONGER smear test thingy and STILL couldnt find it...(WTF??)

BUT then say ive just got a urine infection.

My GP seemed concered, but cos i was going to hosp, i persume he thought they would take bloods there as he thought they would do a scan there too.

Im beginning to think im just not preggo, even tho i have never been late, just my body playing a bloody good joke on me. i stood in the shower just sobbing my heart out earlier......i want this soooo badly, why is this happening to me?

My body is just taking the pee out of me now, im tired, emotional, sore and dont know how much more i can take.