I totally agree with the two previous posts!!!! WOW girl, you were moving way too fast for your age! I am rather upset at the fact that you think you think you are mature enough to have sex with boys and you have no idea about the reprocussions of your actions. WELL NOW YOU HAVE TO GROW UP, be the person and live up to the choices you have made.
ONE STOP SMOKING
TWO Complete your education, start redaing and writing so that you have examples to set for your baby, remember you have made the choice to have sex, (BIG ENOUGH CHOICE!!) follow through on your role as a mother.
THIRDLY: I am worried about your spelling, it is quite evident that you have not applied yourself in the education department of your life!!!
I AM UPSET and it's not right that you are not putting this small unborn baby FIRST!!
I am a mum to be I am 30, I am not perfect but I made the choice to raise a child, I waited until I have sufficient funds in my bank, an honours degree in Education (so that I had the time to raise my child) and a man that I knew would make the most wonderful Dad. and these things are not even concrete in life. I am choosing to still further educate myself in Law after the baby is born only so that we my family have choices and opportunities in life to get ahead. You may be thinking that I have had help along the way, well I have not, this has been done on my own, i have a mother whom I respect very much and not everything has been perfect. All I am saying is that this choice you have made is on your shoulders, If you are unable to provide the best you possibly can for your baby, then I am sure there are others who would love to have the opportunity.
You have to take this very seriously. ASK FOR HELP and DONT BE AFFRAID really, this choice is yours too and I hopee that you are now not only thinking about yourself but the realities of life right now and for the future. I can give you guidence like others in this forum and you have been strong enough to write what you have so far.
Take the next step and believe in yourself, SHOCK yourself and all those around you to be the best you can be, and if you do you will be the strongest 13 year old I will have had the pleasure of writing to.
Please reply so that myself and others in this forum can feel some peace through these rsponces.
I hope to hear from you again soon... please!!
Tineke oxox