So, quite a long story, but am so pissed off it's unreal! Last week me and OH ended up packing our bags and leaving my dads house, after a massive argument involving the whole family. Basically my brother is a lazy shit, who doesn't have to pay a penny towards board, bills, food etc whereas me and OH have to pay £50 a week in bus fares aswell as board and all the rest of it. Anyway, he kicked off, my mum came down it all got completely out of control and my brother and dad smashed the house up- they both ended up with popped bleeding knuckles because they battered anything they found. My brother punched the table which knocked a brew off and went all over my laptop, but apparantly that was my fault. I was being blamed for everything- the fact my dad has no job, how my brother treats me like a piece of shit, how I ruined my life at school and that if my dad has a mental breakdown, its all my fault. OH decided enough was enough, I was hysterical, was worried about LO, I had to sort my placement out as I had already missed a week, and have no money as my bursary hasn't come through yet (My brother aving money is more important than me needing money, I had to wait until his was sorted to get mine). My dad stormed out, turned his phone off and disappeared for ages, brother went to work and my mum went home, so me and OH grabbed what we could and went to his mums. We've been staying here for nearly a week, and that nearly didn't happen as MIL said she didnt think she could let us stay (her own son) but had given her bf a key and wanted him to move in- wtf? OH told her that if she picks a guy she's been going out with for less than 2 months over him, she will have nothing to do with us and LO. She let us stay and set ground rules which is fine. Last night she went out round town with my 2 SILs, who both didn't want to go, because my MIL gets so drunk she wont come home, she is basically an embarrassment when pissed. They went anyway so she wasnt alone. OH rang SIL to ask for a pizza, and his mum said we'll be home some, having 1 more drink, which was fine. Then at 3.30am, youngest SIL turns up home, without her older sister who was meant to be staying the night here. We asked whats up, as its not like her to just storm off and go home. SIL tells us that she went home, because my MIL had dissappeared to the toilet with a family friend who is my age, came back and said 'I've just sniffed something in the toilets', which was coke or god knows what. So SILs left her, pissed off at what she'd done. She was out with this lass, and a lad my OH is friends with and is meant to be going to work with in the next few weeks in London. Mates of OH started to text him, saying they'd seen his mum in town, and she looked a mess. She came home late, shouting and screaming through the letter box, tinging the door bell when she had a key. I woke up OH, as I didn't want to deal with her and be at risk. She came in, telling him she'd had drugs, like she was proud of it or something?! She didn't have a clue what was going on. When she eventually went up to bed, she went to the toilet, and was shouting that she was hingry, she wanted a fag, if anyone was there blah blah blah... She was talking to her self, having a conversation with nobody, then started shouting down the stairs 'I fucking hate you lot'- to her own kids.. Then SIL rang this morning, asking how her mum was, which woke me up. I tried to get back to sleep but couldnt. Then this morning MIL can't remember anything, isn't even bothered and when she did apologise, she didn't even seem to care. She couldn't understand why people were scared and worried about her! I worry, as I know I'm no angel, and I have taken drugs before- but I was a kid, 15 years old so years ago, and have never had them since, but she's 41 has 4 kids to think about and did it because she wanted to try it?! I don't feel comfortable letting someone who has a job with major responsibility (and if anyone found out about last night she would lose her job and everything) who thinks its ok to go out, get steaming and do drugs look after my baby when its here. Even though she has let us stay here, we can tell she doesnt want us here, and she is selfish and puts herself before her kids. She even tried to blame the fact she had drugs on her daughters, saying that they left her alone. Needless to say that the girl who gave her them is getting a mouthful, not just off OH but the lad they were out with. She cant seem to understand how someone who takes drugs near enough every day is not a good person to be around. Sorry, I know its just a massive rant, and pretty pointless but I'm so annoyed its unreal!! Do you think I'm being unreasonable?