OH and I have BTNP since May 2014, I've been tracking temps/cm/cp since May 2016. In 4 cycles it will be 3 years ttc. I'm in the US and I have veteran health coverage so I don't get much support in the baby making department, in fact I think all VA would do is blood work. OH and I have talked about taking out loans to see FS but we don't even know where to start or who to see first. If it comes down to taking out loans then I really don't want that money to go to waste, it'll already be putting us into debt. I just don't know what to do anymore. The new year coming has me in a bit of a panic, three years and nothing. I'm sure there are ladies here who've been trying even longer than us... How do you stay positive?