Vic27
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So I'm now 29 weeks pregnant with my first baby and he will b the first grandchild on each side. My family are so excited and have been great and really supportive they have been buying the baby little presents which I'm so grateful for!
The problem is my husbands family in particular my mother in law it just seems like she couldn't give a toss!
I haven't seen or heard from her since Mother's Day! She has made no effort whatsoever to text/phone me to see how I am and find out how her grandson is coming along and I'm really annoyed and upset. I find it so strange especially after she would always go on about how much she wanted to have a grandchild and went on a d on about it telling us to get a move on?!
I'm also feeling a bit upset as my husbands uncle is getting married on Friday but he's going himself as I couldn't get the day off for it as we were only given 3/4 weeks notice so I'm feeling really left out. I know there's nothing can b done its just one of those things but I'm really upset that I'm going to b the only one not there and I haven't seen any of his family since falling pregnant and probably won't see them until well after baby is born.
They are so different to my family and I accept that but I just can't understand why they wouldn't want to know how I am and their grandson is.
His dad I don't really mind about and he does at least ask my husband how we are and asks to see scan photos an photos of the nursery and offered to give us some money which was nice.
But his mum has bought nothing not one thing which I'm so shocked at!
I don't like her boyfriend either who I think is having a bit of an effect on her and the way she is behaving he's very insecure and possessive!
Am I being hormonal and daft or do I have a reason to b upset?
Sorry for the long rant! X
The problem is my husbands family in particular my mother in law it just seems like she couldn't give a toss!
I haven't seen or heard from her since Mother's Day! She has made no effort whatsoever to text/phone me to see how I am and find out how her grandson is coming along and I'm really annoyed and upset. I find it so strange especially after she would always go on about how much she wanted to have a grandchild and went on a d on about it telling us to get a move on?!
I'm also feeling a bit upset as my husbands uncle is getting married on Friday but he's going himself as I couldn't get the day off for it as we were only given 3/4 weeks notice so I'm feeling really left out. I know there's nothing can b done its just one of those things but I'm really upset that I'm going to b the only one not there and I haven't seen any of his family since falling pregnant and probably won't see them until well after baby is born.
They are so different to my family and I accept that but I just can't understand why they wouldn't want to know how I am and their grandson is.
His dad I don't really mind about and he does at least ask my husband how we are and asks to see scan photos an photos of the nursery and offered to give us some money which was nice.
But his mum has bought nothing not one thing which I'm so shocked at!
I don't like her boyfriend either who I think is having a bit of an effect on her and the way she is behaving he's very insecure and possessive!
Am I being hormonal and daft or do I have a reason to b upset?
Sorry for the long rant! X