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Ok, not sure how to word this but here goes...

We DTD when t was 4 weeks and I was really sore, it really pit me off. When I went to have the coil fitted it was sore, the dr picked this up and asked if I was ok, I told her about the 1st time after t and that I had put it down to the tear. Now it was only a 1st degree, and I have no idea where it was, but as I am sore in one place thought it was just healing or scar still... But are tears inside or outside? We DTD last night, and although better it was still sore, am I the only one like this? I am going to the GP tomorrow as I am still really sweaty on a night, and when I had the coil this was one of the questions I was asked, although apparently sweating is normal she was a bit taken aback at the extent and length of time I was still suffering (I'm currently a 2 pairs pj's a night gal!!) and to see GP if it was much longer... Is it all linked do you think?

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Oh I really don't know but didn't want to read and run. I do know though that our lady bits are full of nerve endings which can work for and against us. Sounds like it's working against you just now! You maybe tore in a really awkward place or it's not healed well or something. You're definately right to get things checked out, no point in suffering! And no idea about the sweating either. Hope you get to the bottom of it all! :hugs:
 
After I had Lacey I was very sore for quite a while. I only had a small tear but found it very uncomfitable to have sex for about a year after giving birth, I still can't do doggy style now due to feeling "tighter". Def ask your gp about it, I didn't and it put me off sex for a long time!! Can't help with the sweats as I sweat alot through the night but I do sleep with the heating on! You everything gets sorted soon for you x x
 
oh hun i hope they will be able to tell you. Now i only had Noa 7 weeks ago, im still to sore to do it doggystyle but other possitions are ok. its just the entering stage its sore for a few seconds.
I really hope everything is ok tho.

Im sweating too nighttime, didnt know it was baby related, i sleep naked but always sweaty in middle of the night. is it not milk that make my boobs wet, its sweat. lovely haha
 
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if my bloods are normal I will be referred to a perineal clinic to make sure all has healed, if not I think it is a case of put up with the sweating and soreness until I have stopped BF, although who knows about the sweating if my hormaone level comes back normal... god I have the wrong job, I was hoping they would do the lot of blood tests today in case they did but I guess cos the probability is my oestrogen being low it is a waste doing the others...
 

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