laura dec 1988
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hello everyone,
As you can probs see im new to this site. I've just posted a similar new post in a different area then come across this area for single parents.
Well im 21 and 17 weeks pregnant with my first baby and over the moon now i've got over the shock ect ect lol. Anyway without playing th sob story
my pregnancy up until press has been awful. My partner of 2 years walked out when i told him i was preganant, beause i wouldn't have an abortion. We both have good secure jobs a nice house together, good family support and friends and lived a general nice life. He decided he wasn't ready and to sum it up the way he treated me was disgusting. He left and as the tenancy was up on our house, u found a place of my own were i'm now really happy on my own with my growing bump
The problem is the babys dad. He is constantly messing me about and he has so far ruined my pregnancy. He spent the first 11 weeks callin me all sorts of names, giving me abuse and accusin me of all sorts of things, anything but accepting the fact that he's gunna be a dad. He couldn't make my 12 week scan but eventually seemed he was coming round when he saw the pic of the baby! A week later he was back to his normal self been nasty tellin me he dont want nothing to so with our baby and will not be payin for the baby. I then told him still he could come to the miswife to listen to bubba's heartbeat...he slept in missed the app and shouted at me for havin a go at him!!
Then he came to my house b4 xmas...and basically spent half an hour screamin at me for ruining his life and keepin the baby.....stormed out and
told me to never contact him again and he will forget me and the baby. I dont want to be with him anymore at all, but my baby deserves a dad!!
Do u agree??....or shall i do it on my own...i know i can do this and im gunna
be a good mummy to my bubba, but do i leave him alone or do i give him chances?
Im really confused and i just want whats best for my baby...but dont know if that's gunna be with mummy and daddy, not together as a couple but still been parents...is it just shock of it all, or at 17 weeks has he had enought time?
any help and advice is much appriciated ladies...sorry its a long post haha
looking foward to hearing from you
As you can probs see im new to this site. I've just posted a similar new post in a different area then come across this area for single parents.
Well im 21 and 17 weeks pregnant with my first baby and over the moon now i've got over the shock ect ect lol. Anyway without playing th sob story
my pregnancy up until press has been awful. My partner of 2 years walked out when i told him i was preganant, beause i wouldn't have an abortion. We both have good secure jobs a nice house together, good family support and friends and lived a general nice life. He decided he wasn't ready and to sum it up the way he treated me was disgusting. He left and as the tenancy was up on our house, u found a place of my own were i'm now really happy on my own with my growing bump
The problem is the babys dad. He is constantly messing me about and he has so far ruined my pregnancy. He spent the first 11 weeks callin me all sorts of names, giving me abuse and accusin me of all sorts of things, anything but accepting the fact that he's gunna be a dad. He couldn't make my 12 week scan but eventually seemed he was coming round when he saw the pic of the baby! A week later he was back to his normal self been nasty tellin me he dont want nothing to so with our baby and will not be payin for the baby. I then told him still he could come to the miswife to listen to bubba's heartbeat...he slept in missed the app and shouted at me for havin a go at him!!
Then he came to my house b4 xmas...and basically spent half an hour screamin at me for ruining his life and keepin the baby.....stormed out and
told me to never contact him again and he will forget me and the baby. I dont want to be with him anymore at all, but my baby deserves a dad!!
Do u agree??....or shall i do it on my own...i know i can do this and im gunna
be a good mummy to my bubba, but do i leave him alone or do i give him chances?
Im really confused and i just want whats best for my baby...but dont know if that's gunna be with mummy and daddy, not together as a couple but still been parents...is it just shock of it all, or at 17 weeks has he had enought time?
any help and advice is much appriciated ladies...sorry its a long post haha
looking foward to hearing from you