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hello everyone
i have been ttc for 3 months now. i am very close to my mum so told her after a month that were ttc. my OH as told a few of his friends and work colleagues which has annoyed me a bit because its extra pressure.
yesterday, after 3 months i told my OH's mum yesterday and basically she is really unhappy that she wasn't told before! when i told her i thought at the time, she's going to stew over this. anyway, this morning she called my phone and said tell my OH thanks very much for telling her last - its obviously a sign of things to come!!!!!!
it really upset me! i've been so emotional this weekend and that topped it off! i thought to myself, quite frankly its my business who finds out but she is obviously really peed off. it's so stressful to ttc already without everyone around you causing more stress!
sorry for the rant but i was wondering if anyone agreed that i'm not going mad, its up to us who we tell?? i wasn't witholding it from her it just hasn't been the right time and i thought my OH would tell her.
x
i have been ttc for 3 months now. i am very close to my mum so told her after a month that were ttc. my OH as told a few of his friends and work colleagues which has annoyed me a bit because its extra pressure.
yesterday, after 3 months i told my OH's mum yesterday and basically she is really unhappy that she wasn't told before! when i told her i thought at the time, she's going to stew over this. anyway, this morning she called my phone and said tell my OH thanks very much for telling her last - its obviously a sign of things to come!!!!!!
it really upset me! i've been so emotional this weekend and that topped it off! i thought to myself, quite frankly its my business who finds out but she is obviously really peed off. it's so stressful to ttc already without everyone around you causing more stress!
sorry for the rant but i was wondering if anyone agreed that i'm not going mad, its up to us who we tell?? i wasn't witholding it from her it just hasn't been the right time and i thought my OH would tell her.
x