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Hope it went well xxx
Had enough now.
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Don't despair. We were TTC over 3 years, 2 failed IUI, but we were successful on the 1st IVF attempt. I was 38 when I got my BFP.
My gorgeous boy had his 1st birthday last month.
Wishing you the best of luck with your IUI, fx this is your turn xxx
My gorgeous boy had his 1st birthday last month.
Wishing you the best of luck with your IUI, fx this is your turn xxx
Hiya hon I hope your appointment went well x
I know it's never as any of us plan & we were told yesterday ivf was the route we had to take & I never imagined it at all but as long as the end goal of our very much wanted babies is there then that's whats we r going to do
Little angle we r being referred due to oh SA numbers was your referral for same or different reasons ? Xx
Sarah xx
I know it's never as any of us plan & we were told yesterday ivf was the route we had to take & I never imagined it at all but as long as the end goal of our very much wanted babies is there then that's whats we r going to do
Little angle we r being referred due to oh SA numbers was your referral for same or different reasons ? Xx
Sarah xx
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Sarah
Ours was unexplained, but probably at least partly to do with my age (late 30s). DH's SA was fine.
Good luck with your IVF xxx
Ours was unexplained, but probably at least partly to do with my age (late 30s). DH's SA was fine.
Good luck with your IVF xxx
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It was fine and we're having IUI tomorrow!
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Good luck Blueflower xx
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Oh wow that's quick! Good luck hon 
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Lots of good luck blueflower, I hope you are blessed with a healthy baby ) Try not to worry about your age I'm 42 next week, I only met my husband 3 years ago so I know how easy it is to worry about time, we've had 2 missed miscarriages over the last 16months but our consultant says it's not age related so we've just gotta keep on trying even though at times it's disheartening. Fingers crossed we're sprinkled with baby dust
) Try not to worry about your age I'm 42 next week, I only met my husband 3 years ago so I know how easy it is to worry about time, we've had 2 missed miscarriages over the last 16months but our consultant says it's not age related so we've just gotta keep on trying even though at times it's disheartening. Fingers crossed we're sprinkled with baby dust
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Thank you! It went ok but I'm a bit worried, I've posted in the IUI/IVF thread.
Hi Blueflower,
I hope the IUI goes well. It's the next stage for me now too and it is really scary to move through so many phases of hope followed by disappointment. I know it's important to stay positive, and to some extent essential if one is to keep depression at bay- but it's so incredibly frustrating to have people who don't really understand say 'just relax' 'it will happen when you're not thinking about it' 'you just have to stay positive' etc. Somehow these comments can feel a little punitive at times- as if you are causing the infertility by not doing these things (of course this isn't true but at sensitive low points they hit me in this way). I think there also needs to be space for being allowed to feel sad at times, before we have to dust ourselves off and rejoin an incredibly long and tough journey.
Wishing you lots of luck with the next stage. xx
I hope the IUI goes well. It's the next stage for me now too and it is really scary to move through so many phases of hope followed by disappointment. I know it's important to stay positive, and to some extent essential if one is to keep depression at bay- but it's so incredibly frustrating to have people who don't really understand say 'just relax' 'it will happen when you're not thinking about it' 'you just have to stay positive' etc. Somehow these comments can feel a little punitive at times- as if you are causing the infertility by not doing these things (of course this isn't true but at sensitive low points they hit me in this way). I think there also needs to be space for being allowed to feel sad at times, before we have to dust ourselves off and rejoin an incredibly long and tough journey.
Wishing you lots of luck with the next stage. xx
Hi Blue flower,
I have a similar post in ttc although I have got pregnant naturally after 4 years trying but had 2 miscarriages.
I relate to that desperate feeling and all I can offer is huge virtual hug and hope for your future.
I have a friend who had IVF twice, got her little boy and is now naturally pregnant which is freaking amazing- it may have kick started something so please have hope.
It's normal to feel the way you do but I suppose the key is to keep occupied and try to be positive.
I hope things start to feel better for you soon.
Xxxx
I have a similar post in ttc although I have got pregnant naturally after 4 years trying but had 2 miscarriages.
I relate to that desperate feeling and all I can offer is huge virtual hug and hope for your future.
I have a friend who had IVF twice, got her little boy and is now naturally pregnant which is freaking amazing- it may have kick started something so please have hope.
It's normal to feel the way you do but I suppose the key is to keep occupied and try to be positive.
I hope things start to feel better for you soon.
Xxxx
