thank you guys i have been thinking a bit more today and well i still havent totally decided i may keep the ashes in an engraved box, iv decided to call my girl either carrie or kelsey im not sure which yet.
But thank you to everyones suggestions and i proberly wont be on here tommorrow i feel my angel deseves and so do i extra attention so il be back at the weekend.
(p.s- thanks claire for your PM's i appreciate it)
Hope you are coping as best you can. I would suggest keeping the ashes until you have had time to really decide what you want to do. I have keep personal items from daughters birth by my bed which i have now put to one side.
Just dont feel in too much of a rush to decide what to do.
I know I posted in another thread, but I just wanted to let you know that I am thinking about you today. I hope you are ok. I think either of your names would be a lovely choice.
lovely names....I don't know if i could choose between them either I know it would have been a sad day for you, but I hope that she and your other angel will bring you joy one day soon...... you will know when the time is right and what ever you do will be perfect for you family.
good for you taking a wee time out too special for you all.
Looking forward to your posts when your ready again.... you take care ...oh and KEEP positive!! and if you can't...well we will help OMG do you think you'll let us???? I know you will......
Thanks for sharing Tracey, and thank you for being such an open honest support to us all here too...... Now you chill out and try to enjoy some *me* time....you deserve it.. Lv Yvonne xx
It was a sad and extremely emotional day yesterday. After collecting her ashes i put them in a small box, im getting a box soon engraved with her name, which iv decided will be carrie-ann.
I think for the moment im going to keep them with me for now, i have given half the ashes to her dad (sadly we have split up, it was too much for us but we will support each other and stay friends). I will keep the ashes on me until i get a bit stronger and then decide what to do with them then, but until then i will keep them for now.
Thanks for all your messages i got through it yesterday just about, spent most of the day in tears but thats what i have to do if i want to get stronger otherwise i will keep thinking about it over an over and never really move on.
Hi Tracey, I think Carrie-Ann is a very pretty name. Yesterday must have been very sad for you, I am sorry you had to go through it alone. It is sad you and your partner have spilt, you have been under so much pressure. I really hope things start looking up for you soon...you give me and so many other people so much encouragement and support on these forums. You deserve some happiness now.
I hope you are getting through the days. Its 4.20am and i am awake. It keeps hitting you and i know its hard. I am so sorry for your loss and that you have split up with OH.
Take care of yourself and if you want to PM please do!!
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