Gender scan Monday - just thrown up!!!

[tinytoes]

I am sorry you are disappointed hun , i have to say i was judgmental and horrible before reading about you and i apologise . I can see it really is a devastating blow for you and i hope you can find a way to mourn what you dont have and overcome this x x

 

[cosmicgirl]

No need to apologise tinytoes, I'd probably be exactly the same xx

 

[jules84]

Reading peoples replies maybe this thread will help a lot of people understand gender disappointment and that's a good thing. Xx

 

[cosmicgirl]

I hope so x

 

[netty]

Ahhh cos poor you up crying all night massive hugs sweety x im sure you will love this one just as much as the rest but it must be hard to let a dream go x I hope you feel better soon sweets

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[tweetyfoo]

Cos just seen this, so sorry you didn't get your pink bundle. I can understand the disappointment you feel, really hope you feel Better soon xx

 

[katey123]

Is it not possible that may be you shouldn't have set a amount to stop at , if a girl IS so important carry on may be that is all that has stopped your wish from coming true . Having said that I have never had twins myself and you were blessed with them. I do hope you can put all this behind you before your son is born all the best xx

 

[cosmicgirl]

I can't afford to have any more, I was pushing it financially having this one. There's no more rooms in the house or seats in the car after this one. Where do you draw the line? I really think I could have 6,7,8 and still not get my little girl x

 

[cosmicgirl]

Thanks lynette and tweety x

 

[Sassysugar]

Sweety I'm so sorry hun, sending you the biggest hug

 

[cosmicgirl]

Thanks sassy x

 

[Cazzlou]

How are you feeling today ? Take some time it will be like grieving for someone it takes time to accept x

Hope you got some rest x

 

[wannabmummy]

Oh hun im so sorry. Know how much you wanted a girl. Really hope it gets easier over time xxx

 

[kra0]

I didn't even know there was such a thing as gender disappointment until Kylie posted a similar thread a few months back so now I understand it. Xxxx

 

[EmmaN27]

I can't afford to have any more, I was pushing it financially having this one. There's no more rooms in the house or seats in the car after this one. Where do you draw the line? I really think I could have 6,7,8 and still not get my little girl x

I make you right Cosmic, you need to draw a line somewhere, must be tough financially as kids aren't cheap and like you say there are no guarantees when it comes to the sex of babies. x

 

[cosmicgirl]

That's right Emma. If the truth be told, if someone could guarantee a girl next time, I'd go for it, I can't lie. x

 

[cosmicgirl]

Thanks for the support girls, sent home early and now in bed, feel awful.
If this thread can raise some awareness of GD then that is brilliant x

 

[Laura_C]

My Nan was one of 9 girls, they stopped after 9 - you really do have to draw the line somewhere. I think they give it a good go

So sorry you didn't get your pink bundle, i would love a little boy, makes it all the more cruel that I had my son for only 2 days :/ had my boy for a little bit at least. After all that I'm just happy I've got the kids that I have, they are my world

 

[gooseberry]

aw cosmic you sound absolutely gutted im also thinking of having a gender scan, i have 3 boys and the baby i lost last year was also a boy, im thinking im like you and only have boys tbh, already my gut feeling is that its another boy but its the expectations of everyone else that i must be having a girl this time is making me question it, i must admit it would be pretty special to have a girl this time so i feel its best to find out before it comes along and perhaps i feel a tinge of dissapointment x x

 

[gooseberry]

My Nan was one of 9 girls, they stopped after 9 - you really do have to draw the line somewhere. I think they give it a good go

So sorry you didn't get your pink bundle, i would love a little boy, makes it all the more cruel that I had my son for only 2 days :/ had my boy for a little bit at least. After all that I'm just happy I've got the kids that I have, they are my world

9 girls wow!!