Friends telling what to do

[twinkletoes220]

I have been getting all excited about TTC and oh and I decided that we would start trying properly in October 2013. We haven't told anyone were trying as I didn't want the pressure from people asking every month. People know that we want children,but that's as far as it goes really.

I am 28,I have a good job, OH has his own business and we feel we are ready to start our little family 😃

I went to see a friend of mine yesterday,who has always been against me having children. She was told when she was quite young that she probably wouldn't ever have children,which in her mind is fine because she didn't want them anyway! But when I saw her yesterday she wouldn't stop going on about how they'd ruin my life and how I won't be able to do anything etc. etc. I don't care what she thinks cos I want a family and she won't change how I feel about that,but I'd like to think that she'd be happy for me when I am eventually pregnant!! It just upsets me that every time I see her that she's so negative about it. Having said that we used to sleays go out and share a bottle of wine together and part of me wonders if she's worried about us not doing that anymore.

Anyway. Just wanted to write it all down. Thanks xxx

 

[Sassysugar]

Do you think maybe now she is older she actually wants kids but because she can't have them she's trying to make sure you don't want them either? So you don't move on without her?

 

[Jayjay027]

Do you think maybe now she is older she actually wants kids but because she can't have them she's trying to make sure you don't want them either? So you don't move on without her?

I was thinking this exact thing x