*OMG update!!* lost my friends

[Quill]

They were never the right sort of friends in the first place it sounds like

Let them have their petty drama, sounds like they aren't very responsible anyway. Have you tried going to a post-natal group? I didn't make any longlasting friends there but it was nice to get out and about and made me feel better being a little bit social. I always found that if something upsetting happened (like what your 'friends') did to you, it helped me a lot to focus on something else as a distraction. The more time passed the easier it became to not think of the event or person.

Sometimes I think it's kind of hard being mid-20's and "starting all over again" making friends now that we've all got babies and leaving the single/couple type of life behind. But it can happen, I think. to you!

 

[Geordie&Bairn]

Nasty pices of poo that person is you worth a million of them hunnie 8) not worth a minute of your time or thoughts love
forget them and get out there and you'll make some new realy lovely mates

hugs

 

[rachie29]

I havent spoken to my 'best friend' for nearly a year now. She had jealousy issues over my pregnancy and although we tried to sort through it ultimately I finally realised that she was just too selfish and it was too hard to be her friend, particularly as I was about to have a baby. It was a very tough decision but in the end it was the best one I ever made.

Our lives were moving in different directions really and when she told me I was selfish for not going to see her after work when I was heavily pregnant and not going on a mutual friends hen-do for 3 DAYS! i decided enough was enough. She was quite needy and did a similar thing with so called mutual friends in that they deleted me from their social networking sites.. some of whom I no longer speak to either.

I am so much happier, I have made some good friends through baby groups and I no longer feel like I have the constant pressure of her neediness.