They were never the right sort of friends in the first place it sounds like
Let them have their petty drama, sounds like they aren't very responsible anyway. Have you tried going to a post-natal group? I didn't make any longlasting friends there but it was nice to get out and about and made me feel better being a little bit social. I always found that if something upsetting happened (like what your 'friends') did to you, it helped me a lot to focus on something else as a distraction. The more time passed the easier it became to not think of the event or person.
Sometimes I think it's kind of hard being mid-20's and "starting all over again" making friends now that we've all got babies and leaving the single/couple type of life behind. But it can happen, I think. to you!
Let them have their petty drama, sounds like they aren't very responsible anyway. Have you tried going to a post-natal group? I didn't make any longlasting friends there but it was nice to get out and about and made me feel better being a little bit social. I always found that if something upsetting happened (like what your 'friends') did to you, it helped me a lot to focus on something else as a distraction. The more time passed the easier it became to not think of the event or person.
Sometimes I think it's kind of hard being mid-20's and "starting all over again" making friends now that we've all got babies and leaving the single/couple type of life behind. But it can happen, I think. to you!