I was being monitord on the machine... And it does show I was having small contractions... They told me it was Braxton Hicks. Then on the phone at 10pm (hubby called cos I couldn't breathe with the pain I was in) the same midwife that sent me home told me to have a bath and calm down!! I was hysterical because I believed them it was BH and I'd have to be in that amount of pain for another 3 weeks minimum. I kept feeling the need to poop or pee (I had epidural with dd so had no idea that it was because I needed to push)... So I was trying to go toilet and was pushing on the toilet!! They basically nearly let me have my premature baby in a toilet because they didn't take me seriously. I told asked them about 10 times if they were sure because if feels the exact same as labour pain. I put a complaint in about it. Also they lock the doors to the maternity building at night we got there around half 10/11pm and the buzzer was ringing for ages, I was screaming outside and there was 2 porters at the side having a cig just staring at us, they could have come over and opened it.
Oh I forgot, they decided that when i got there, I had something wrong with my bladder and tried to put one of those pee things inside me to get pee out BEFORE checking to see of I was in labour. When i kicked her hand and pulled the thing out the dr decided to check dilation... She was like OK we need to get her to delivery, my warters went, they bought me a wheelchair I told them they can fk off and I started just pushing so they just rushed me down on the bed lol. She was trying to force my legs together as i was trying to push so you can imagine the abuse I was screaming haha and then we finally got there and got gas and air and he was born within seconds.
So I think it fairly acceptable for me to put a complaint in!! But on the whole much better birth still. Maybe number 3 will go lovely xD