Eryinera
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So after my 2nd MC in 3 months and 5 months of being pregnant/miscarrying/trying etc. With no baby at the end of it.. it's hard I should have a huge bump by now but instead I've got to think if I want to put myself through that again. Through Tri 1 again. It would be an easy decision If I could enter pregnancy at tri 2! And right now I honestly don't know if I can but I really really want to.
I can't think about putting myself through that again right now. I don't know why but conceiving doesn't seem to be my problem but the hearts just don't want to beat for very long.
I know I have only had two and many women on here have had a lot more than me. and I don't feel like I have a right to feel as raw as i do right now. I know I probably do have a right blah blah but I feel like I'm just not supposed to with so many worse cases out there than mine.
I try as freddy said to face life with a grin, never in and just carry on with the show. but every now and then the curtains come down between the acts and I just feel this wave of self pity and gloominess and I can't wait for someone else to say right ready for show time again? I'm sorry for this rant. I'm sorry I'm feeling this way and I'm sorry for feeling so bleeping sorry all the time.
I'm not a great writer or poet or anything like that crap I just sometimes have to say things I can't say aloud or in my normal "typing voice" if that makes sense. So.
I lie and I wait for you to arrive in this world.
A day I imagined that wouldn't be so cruel.
I think of all the cuddles I cannot give,
I think of the life you will not live,
I think of the mistakes you will not make,
And I think of the steps you will not take.
You were mine,
You are mine.
Always you will be.
My heart it aches to have known you.
My arms they long to have held you.
I wanted to have fed you, to dress you,
I had so many plans for you.
They say you were not meant to be
But you were, you were to me.
I waited for you for so long,
And I question what I did wrong.
I envy those with bumps and babes,
I shouldn't I know, but its you I crave.
I talk and say that I am fine,
I knew, and it wasnt your time.
The hope it doesnt fade.
I still wish that you could be saved.
A miracle, a fix, a cure, a mistake,
Please tell me that I am wrong!
But I know. I know that you are gone.
I sit and wait for a time I wish wont come.
I wear a smile I try to be strong.
I just want the world to go away ,
To leave me be and for you to stay.
I love you my angel. My child.
Youre gone too soon.
You have stepped upon a path,
A path I cannot follow.
But one day at the end of my time
I will. I will find you, and hold you
And then I will know you again.
I can't think about putting myself through that again right now. I don't know why but conceiving doesn't seem to be my problem but the hearts just don't want to beat for very long.
I know I have only had two and many women on here have had a lot more than me. and I don't feel like I have a right to feel as raw as i do right now. I know I probably do have a right blah blah but I feel like I'm just not supposed to with so many worse cases out there than mine.
I try as freddy said to face life with a grin, never in and just carry on with the show. but every now and then the curtains come down between the acts and I just feel this wave of self pity and gloominess and I can't wait for someone else to say right ready for show time again? I'm sorry for this rant. I'm sorry I'm feeling this way and I'm sorry for feeling so bleeping sorry all the time.
I'm not a great writer or poet or anything like that crap I just sometimes have to say things I can't say aloud or in my normal "typing voice" if that makes sense. So.
I lie and I wait for you to arrive in this world.
A day I imagined that wouldn't be so cruel.
I think of all the cuddles I cannot give,
I think of the life you will not live,
I think of the mistakes you will not make,
And I think of the steps you will not take.
You were mine,
You are mine.
Always you will be.
My heart it aches to have known you.
My arms they long to have held you.
I wanted to have fed you, to dress you,
I had so many plans for you.
They say you were not meant to be
But you were, you were to me.
I waited for you for so long,
And I question what I did wrong.
I envy those with bumps and babes,
I shouldn't I know, but its you I crave.
I talk and say that I am fine,
I knew, and it wasnt your time.
The hope it doesnt fade.
I still wish that you could be saved.
A miracle, a fix, a cure, a mistake,
Please tell me that I am wrong!
But I know. I know that you are gone.
I sit and wait for a time I wish wont come.
I wear a smile I try to be strong.
I just want the world to go away ,
To leave me be and for you to stay.
I love you my angel. My child.
Youre gone too soon.
You have stepped upon a path,
A path I cannot follow.
But one day at the end of my time
I will. I will find you, and hold you
And then I will know you again.