i had an epidural twice but with my last one i was too far gone to have one, they gave me a drug that began with an m its like pethedine but DOES NOT go to the baby so i agreed to it, as the pain was bad, anyway omg it was the best thing in the world, i still had the pain, but i didnt care if that made sense, so with this pregnancy im asking for that as pain relief again as it also means i can leave the hospital quicker too.