Claire19
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My OH left his phone at home when he went to work the other day and asked me to take it with me so I could answer anything that came through.
being a bit curious I looked through his texts - I have no Idea why because I trust him 100%.
he still had contact with his ex has they have a son together, so understandably they still text now and again regarding their son!
I went all the way back to when we first started seeing each other a year and Half ago, and was shocked that they met up whilst he was taking me on 'dates' to talk about 'us'.
they went through a bad break up and I don't know much about what happened as he 'hates' her.
some of these texts off my OH was 'I still love you. I always will'
he took me to a westlife concert on our 3rd date - the tickets he brought for her bday (which I was aware of) -and I noticed that she some how was also at the concert and they were texting each other throughout saying 'this song makes me think of the way we were'
I know my OH didn't want to split up with his ex and it was all her doing, but I cant understand why he started taking me on dates if he still felt this way about his ex!
I read through most of his texts off his ex and the only time they seemed to stop the flirty texts was when she seemed to start seeing someone else. but it was exactly the same time as when we decided to be together properly.
now I'm confused as to if he just got with me because she started seeing someone else or because he genuinely wanted too!!
now I hate myself for looking and keep thinking that he still loves her and wants to be with her!!! ARRGGH.
being a bit curious I looked through his texts - I have no Idea why because I trust him 100%.
he still had contact with his ex has they have a son together, so understandably they still text now and again regarding their son!
I went all the way back to when we first started seeing each other a year and Half ago, and was shocked that they met up whilst he was taking me on 'dates' to talk about 'us'.
they went through a bad break up and I don't know much about what happened as he 'hates' her.
some of these texts off my OH was 'I still love you. I always will'
he took me to a westlife concert on our 3rd date - the tickets he brought for her bday (which I was aware of) -and I noticed that she some how was also at the concert and they were texting each other throughout saying 'this song makes me think of the way we were'
I know my OH didn't want to split up with his ex and it was all her doing, but I cant understand why he started taking me on dates if he still felt this way about his ex!
I read through most of his texts off his ex and the only time they seemed to stop the flirty texts was when she seemed to start seeing someone else. but it was exactly the same time as when we decided to be together properly.
now I'm confused as to if he just got with me because she started seeing someone else or because he genuinely wanted too!!
now I hate myself for looking and keep thinking that he still loves her and wants to be with her!!! ARRGGH.