~*~*~* December Testing Thread *~*~*~

[WolfMamma]

I don't have a testing date as we are NTNP but am definately hoping that I might have a need to test towards the end of December

Hope you ladies don't mind me joining in here!

 

[babyscotcher]

not going to put myself down for a date this month. We have agreed that things are too unstable between us as the hubby is being a kn0b so going to start trying again in the new year by just ntnp this month.

 

[Melly41]

Sorry to hear that babyscotcher. Hope things settle down and you get your bfp in the new year!

 

[Fastnet1]

Thanks KatD. Keeping everything crossed.im sorry to read that Babyscotcher and I hope things work out. You never know ntnp may help your ttc journey as it takes a lot of the pressure off you both. Good luck.

 

[Baby Cakes]

Hi
I'm not out for Nov yet but can I have the 22nd please , not feeling any different good luck ladies

 

[hopeful1976]

Can I have the 20th please honey? x

 

[KatD]

I don't have a testing date as we are NTNP but am definately hoping that I might have a need to test towards the end of December

Hope you ladies don't mind me joining in here!

we don't mind at all!

FX that you will have a bfp for xmas!!!!!!!!!!

 

[KatD]

not going to put myself down for a date this month. We have agreed that things are too unstable between us as the hubby is being a kn0b so going to start trying again in the new year by just ntnp this month.

TTC is a horrible emotional strain on any relationship. I hope you guys will sort out any issues between you and that you will be stronger for it! maybe a break is just what you need. FX sweetie

 

[KatD]

Updated Baby Cakes and Hopeful

Not feeling anything different, Baby Cakes can be a good sign! Many women don't have any symptoms before they get their bfp. I think, if I remember correctly, GG didn't have much in the way of symptoms too. FX the broke her broom!

 

[babyscotcher]

not going to put myself down for a date this month. We have agreed that things are too unstable between us as the hubby is being a kn0b so going to start trying again in the new year by just ntnp this month.

TTC is a horrible emotional strain on any relationship. I hope you guys will sort out any issues between you and that you will be stronger for it! maybe a break is just what you need. FX sweetie

Thanks Kat and Melly. as it stands I am on CD12 today and not been able to DTD anyway as I have had some awful migraines going on. will probably dtd tomorrow as it is the weekend (how romantic lol) but I kinda hope it doesn't happen until the new year as I can then relax over Christmas and start again in 2018.

When I got married on the 1st July 2017 I always assumed I would be pregnant going into 2018 and it makes me sad that I am not.

 

[Ttc1234]

Aww sorry to hear your having trouble with hubby. I completely sympathise when you say you thought U would be preggers at Xmas - so did I! I do feel way less fixated on ttc this month and I've had an awful cold the past week so that's taken my mind off things! Hoping it happens soon x

 

[xMillie]

Good luck for December ladies xx

I'm not putting myself down, have no idea what cd I am and no interest in working it out
all a waste of time for me

 

[MoominGirl]

So I'll be sticking with the 22nd though I'm confident the witch will get me before then. I'm not sure why I even bother. As I think I said before, it's mainly for the lovely company.

Millie - it's lovely to see you back. Just wanted you to know I'm thinking of you. I'm planning to track for the next few months until IVF hopefully around April time then I'm done with tracking and OPKs, regardless of the outcome. It's just a waste of time.

 

[CDK500]

Can I have the 23rd please?
Not feeling overly optimistic right now but you never know!

 

[KatD]

Can I have the 23rd please?
Not feeling overly optimistic right now but you never know!

Added

I think it's because you are trying to be "realistic" - that's probably why you aren't feeling very optimistic.

It's hard when another cycle passes and no bfp, but I think what has helped me to stay sane is to take the time to feel sad about it but then allowing myself to get excited with a new cycle. I find it harder to avoid depression if I have to limit myself emotionally. So, instead I work through all my emotions and allow myself the time to feel them.

FX hun! I hope this is your cycle

 

[xMillie]

So I'll be sticking with the 22nd though I'm confident the witch will get me before then. I'm not sure why I even bother. As I think I said before, it's mainly for the lovely company.

Millie - it's lovely to see you back. Just wanted you to know I'm thinking of you. I'm planning to track for the next few months until IVF hopefully around April time then I'm done with tracking and OPKs, regardless of the outcome. It's just a waste of time.

Thanks. Keeping away is doing me good but I like to see how everyone is doing. Hopefully you don't need the ivf xx

 

[MoominGirl]

So I'll be sticking with the 22nd though I'm confident the witch will get me before then. I'm not sure why I even bother. As I think I said before, it's mainly for the lovely company.

Millie - it's lovely to see you back. Just wanted you to know I'm thinking of you. I'm planning to track for the next few months until IVF hopefully around April time then I'm done with tracking and OPKs, regardless of the outcome. It's just a waste of time.

Thanks. Keeping away is doing me good but I like to see how everyone is doing. Hopefully you don't need the ivf xx

Thanks. I hope not either but I'm trying to be realistic. It helps with the expectations and I feel more prepared that way. Helps a little with the emotions as well I think. With my cycles, I think I'll likely have 5 more cycles by April. Gives me something to focus on at least even if it doesn't feel very positive.

 

[linxminx21]

Could you please put me down for the 22nd?
I will be roughly 11dpo then as Cd1 for me. Af due Xmas eve! Good luck ladies x

 

[Melly41]

What a fab xmas presie that would be linxminx x

 

[linxminx21]

It would be fantastic! But puts pressure on me lol! The oh is on board big time this month and we've agreed on more morning sex... Although it will be 3am sex as he goes to work at 4am lol! Poor bugger! (but we got pregnant with lacie having morning sex lol)
I'm going to do him a favour and keep his swimmers nice and fresh while af is here lol then he can do me one getting up a bit earlier!