arghhhh

[staciiee]

im fed up and absolutely disgusted with me OH he is so immature doesnt care and has no respect for anyone else....today he hit me...yes hit his pregnant wife who hes supposed to love and kept telling me to get an abortion...how evil can you get... i told him there is no way i would ever get one n then he kept saying well ill get full custody then. i called him scum for hitting me (2nd time since been pregnant both in my shoulder) and then said well if im scum you best find another dad..... it makes me so mad hes 12 year older than me and hes acting like a pathetic little boy, my MIL even had a go at him today but he doesnt listen is just all smug and clever with his replies. i left him a while ago n he was in bits becasue i had gone but now he acts like hes not even interested if i do go. however when he is in a good mood he is so luvy dovey hes little jekyll and hyde... he doesnt realise what he will loose wish someone would just knock some common sense into him... arghhhh

sorry just needed to have a rant and get that off my chest

 

[cosmicgirl]

You need to leave him.
He has hit you twice whilst pregnant? The next time he could really hurt you or baby. I would never allow anyone violent around my baby.
Get out now hun, seriously x

 

[newbie1984]

Totally agree.

 

[Ceebump]

Leaveee .. My r.s was similar!! Its on here called last straw .. I thort ppl were being harsh but no its true and they were right x

 

[Ceebump]

Sounds so much like my fob (father of baby)

 

[Jayjay027]

You need to leave him.
He has hit you twice whilst pregnant? The next time he could really hurt you or baby. I would never allow anyone violent around my baby.
Get out now hun, seriously x

Couldn't have put it better than this.
Leave! Now!! X

 

[tabbi]

leave him, any man that hits a pregnant woman is less than pond scum which is one of the lowest forms of life. do whats right you for and bump x x x

 

[precious_cargo]

My Mum experienced the same thing when she was oregnant with my younger sister n she stayed we suffered years of abuse at his hands and still have issues now because of it.
You need to leave for the sake of yourself n your baby. Feel free to PM me x



Babydust to all

 

[Lolly85x]

You need to be strong and leave him, not just for your own safety but your babies too... Who knows what could happen. Easier said than done, I know. But there comes a point enough is enough. And you have to look at the bigger picture...xxx

 

[staciiee]

thanks everyone.... ive gone... my MIL and FIL brought me to my grans, even his own parents have fell out with him xx

 

[Lolly85x]

Really says something if his mum and dad are not speaking to him. Hope your ok x

 

[tabbi]

thats really nice of them hun, you look after yourself n babybump you have done the right thing x x x

 

[Ceebump]

If you would like anyone to talk to feel free to message me chick x keep smiling and stay positive x

 

[dyscochick]

Glad you've left hun, you did the right thing, you have to see how appalling it is that he would hit you and that would hit you pregnant. It is never ever ever acceptable for anyone to do that to you especially someone who is supposed to love and protect you. Well done and stay strong xx

 

[NaomiiLeiigh.]

Sorry to hear this hun. All the best for you & baby though.
I noticed a lot of women saying no bloke should hit a pregnant women. No bloke should be hitting a women anyway (or women to bloke)
In a physical way

 

[Jayceesmumma]

Totally agree with everyone.. Id report it too so it's on file for future use!!!

 

[Bellarina]

Hey hun
Im really glad to see you have left him and I hope you wont consider going back.

My aunty was in a violent relationship and was carrying his twins....she miscarried the one twin baby because the violence was so bad. he didnt stop when she gave birth to the remaining twin and would hit her whilst she was feeding the baby...she hid it from the family for a long time until my mum saw bruises on her and made her go to the police.

If a man (i use that term loosely as i dont consider someon who hits a woman let alone a pregnant one a man) is going to hit you he will always do it, a leopard doesnt change its spots

xxx