April mummies!!

[Flynnbear]

Thanks girls and fingers crossed that there will be heart beat at the next scan! I really wasn't very impressed with the sonographer as she was just so vague. When I asked her is it likely that I'm less than 6 weeks and whether she was worried that she could not see a heartbeat at the size I was measuring she just kept saying 'I can't say anything it's too small and I don't want to but the hospital at risk by giving you information that might be wrong' which didn't really help my worry. Even if she had said, it's 50/50 mmc or health pregnancy I think that would have helped! She also made a comment about this being the difficulty with people that go and get pregnant straight after a miscarriage, but the tone of her voice was really rude and as if we had done something really wrong! I wouldn't mind if we had tried to get pregnant straight away but we didn't we were actually trying to be safe but somehow it seems that one his little guys managed to slip through!!

I had the worst night's sleep, just kept dreaming about scan, blood test, midwives, screaming babies and labour! They were really hectic dreams and I feel like I haven't been to sleep at all! I told my OH and he said it's because I'm obsessing over being pregnant and I just need to chill out! He told me to just pretend everything was normal and get on with life! Hmmmm easy for him to say, he's not the one feeling sick, having to change his lifestyle, be careful about what he eat! And he most certainly isn't the one wondering if all the different sensations I have in my body are normal or something to worry about! Glad I have all you girlies on here to chat too, you really are a supportive lot!

Anyway, enough of me going on! Hope you are all feeling okay today. Can't remember if anyone has scans or appts today but if you do then good luck!

 

[twixi]

Hi Flynn bear I hope the wait for your next scan goes quickly. My last af was 3rd July and last time I was measured I'm a week behind my dates due to later ovulation, and I'm 9+3 so I think there's every possibility your dates could be 5-6 weeks. Xx

 

[Ams1985]

Good luck for today Twixi

Flynnbear I was sent to EPU after Dr thought I had an ectopic pregnancy, LMP was 11 July but my cycles are a bit random, had a barely visible positive on 6 august, and a v faint one on the 8th which made me go and get a FR test which was positive. Scan on 21 August showed gestational and yolk sak but no fetal pole or heartbeat or anything, came back 2 weeks later and there was pip - heart beating away Sonographer said I was 7+4 (but scan said 7+3 so that's what i'm going with) so I would have been 5+3 when I had the first scan. The 2 weeks waiting was scary but i'm hoping that the can was just too early for you like it was for me. Hope the next couple of weeks don't drag too much for you.

Naomi hopefully the cramps is just bubs growing and stretching uterus to get more comfy in there.

 

[3lilmonsters]

Good luck Twixi. Flynnbear there is noting wrong with getting pregnant after a miscarriage and don't let that rude idiot make you feel like there is. I had a m/c start on 14th July and got pregnant straight away my consultant has been lovely and said good on me for trying again so quickly as some women can be too scared and beforevthey know it years have passed by. Do you know when you ov might be another to add to the mix. Fx everything is fine and next time you see the heartbeat there is no point saying don't worry as you will (like me lol) just try and be as normal as possible and don't drive yourself crazy xx

 

[naomi88]

Thanks girls and fingers crossed that there will be heart beat at the next scan! I really wasn't very impressed with the sonographer as she was just so vague. When I asked her is it likely that I'm less than 6 weeks and whether she was worried that she could not see a heartbeat at the size I was measuring she just kept saying 'I can't say anything it's too small and I don't want to but the hospital at risk by giving you information that might be wrong' which didn't really help my worry. Even if she had said, it's 50/50 mmc or health pregnancy I think that would have helped! She also made a comment about this being the difficulty with people that go and get pregnant straight after a miscarriage, but the tone of her voice was really rude and as if we had done something really wrong! I wouldn't mind if we had tried to get pregnant straight away but we didn't we were actually trying to be safe but somehow it seems that one his little guys managed to slip through!!

I had the worst night's sleep, just kept dreaming about scan, blood test, midwives, screaming babies and labour! They were really hectic dreams and I feel like I haven't been to sleep at all! I told my OH and he said it's because I'm obsessing over being pregnant and I just need to chill out! He told me to just pretend everything was normal and get on with life! Hmmmm easy for him to say, he's not the one feeling sick, having to change his lifestyle, be careful about what he eat! And he most certainly isn't the one wondering if all the different sensations I have in my body are normal or something to worry about! Glad I have all you girlies on here to chat too, you really are a supportive lot!

Anyway, enough of me going on! Hope you are all feeling okay today. Can't remember if anyone has scans or appts today but if you do then good luck!

Think that's really rude of the sonographer saying that about getting pregnant straight after a mc. I also got pregnant straight after a mc, and also wasn't intentionally trying- we only slept together a couple of times, which was just over two weeks after i would normally ovulate and i thought we'd probably missed the boat timing wise. It had taken ages to catch the first time so didn't in a million years think we'd be lucky enough to catch again so quickly. I am really happy we did though, and i managed to work out a rough date which was confirmed by my scan the other week. Yes it does make it harder to date, but plenty of people ovulate late and date their pregnancies wrong too, like twixi said.

As for your OH i know where you're coming from. I have a really good marriage but we've had a few arguments lately when he has said i am obsessing- but like you say its us who are aware of all the aches and pains and niggles. I think though that they say it because they love us and are worried about us and don't want us to send ourselves crazy.
Xxx

 

[babyA]

Well those tablets have worked wonders and sickness gone able to keep food n drink down which is heaven!! got my scan date through today yay!! 25th sept at 9.25 am, how is everyone else feeling? Totally thought I felt flutters this am but surely that's too early even if it is my 3rd xx

 

[luratraloora]

Well those tablets have worked wonders and sickness gone able to keep food n drink down which is heaven!! got my scan date through today yay!! 25th sept at 9.25 am, how is everyone else feeling? Totally thought I felt flutters this am but surely that's too early even if it is my 3rd xx

Great news about the tablets which ones have they given you? We have the same scan date too

 

[Gillyboos]

Good luck Twixi. Thinking of you.

So my sickness is now coming at night, 11pm last night for a good hour. Feel rubbish today.
I can't believe it's only 10 days until my 12 week scan, I'm so emotional, full of excitement and fear.

 

[twixi]

Hi everyone well thankfully I had good news again!
Baby is measuring correctly and was moving around thank goodness. I've never been such a nervous wreck! It just shows you can bleed nearly every day and things are still ok. I know I'm not out the woods yet but I feel a lot better now I'm past nine weeks. My 12 week scan is just over two weeks away!
Thanks for all your lovely support xxx

 

[Balthazar1275]

That is fantastic news Twixi. So so pleased for you. Have you got a pic for us all to see your lovely little bean?

Michelle x

 

[beckylou713]

Great news Twixi!

 

[twixi]

Here's baby! I'm not sure which end is which I was so flustered I didn't ask! I think baby's facing forward, and head maybe the left? Xx

 

[Ams1985]

Great news Twixi so pleased for you.

 

[3lilmonsters]

Fantastic news Twixi I'm so pleased for you x

 

[naomi88]

Fantastic news twixi hopefully you can start to relax more now!! Xxx

 

[waaah101]

Great news!

 

[babyA]

Great news twixi lovely pic! Oh yeah we r same date how lovely they Gave metacloprimide which is what I had with my daughter! on home run now girls before tri 2 , going quick really although drags at time!

 

[douglasxox]

What lovely news!! X

 

[twixi]

Thanks girls, that's nice babyA two weeks on Monday til my 12 week scan how about you? Hope you feel better soon xx

 

[xlindseywells]

Just popping in.

Had my first scan today and everything is good! I'm 9 weeks and 1 day, so my EDD is 17th April 2014.