Another loss

[Cosmogirl7]

So my 3rd time lucky baby didn't make it

Went for a scan yesterday as I'd had a lot of bleeding and she said pregnancy isn't viable and I'm pretty much just waiting to pass the remains. I've not done this with my previous 2 pregnancies I've had a D&C but because I'm only just 6 weeks she said it's better just to pass naturally.

So sad and worried that I'll never be a mum

 

[SunnySue]

So sorry to hear this hun
Nothing I can say will make this any easier for you, but I want you to know I am thinking of you x look after yourself hun x

 

[Gemma26]

Really sorry to hear this I hope your time comes soon- surely now after 3 tragic losses they will medically look into why it has happened etc? Fingers crossed for you

 

[Cazzie11]

Oh Cosmo, I'm so sorry. Wish I could give you a hug so I'll send one virtually. You will be a mum, it's just that our roads are slightly bumpier than other peoples. Look after yourself hun, I'm always here to chat xx

 

[laurat]

Oh Im so sorry! Xx

 

[Elliott]

I'm so sorry cosmo, I've found one tough so I can only imagine how you must be feeling. Thinking of you and wish there was more I could do. You know where I am if you're needing a chat at all, look after yourself xxx

 

[Iwant3]

so sorry to hear this has happened to you again.

 

[Lou1103]

So sorry hun
I feel the same way, that is such a scary thought but it will happen hun, look after yourself xxx

 

[CARNAT22]

So sorry to hear this!

I know it's early days and you need to grieve for this loss and get yourself on track but you will now be legible for recurrent miscarriage testing?

It is a bit invasive - lots of blood tests, blood tests for your OH and scans but it can rule out any obvious issues - or allow Dr's to treat you accordingly if you do have something wrong.

Obviously you need to do this in your own time but for me after loss number 3 I felt I needed to take action.

I had my 3rd loss in the November, RM testing in early Jan and results in early March so it takes a while.

Also despite me thinking I was doomed to loose all my babies I did manage a successful pregnancy.

Keep the faith hun, you will get your baby

X

 

[jojo3972]

So sorry this has happened again , big hugs xxx

 

[nicejuicypear]

Cosmo, i'm so sorry to hear this.

I agree with Carnat, push for RMC testing. I had the same experience, it took quite a while for it all to happen. Last MC was Sept, I went to the doctors in Oct to ask for a referral, had an appointment in November for basic checks and bloods, another appt in Jan for a hysteroscopy and a follow up this week. It takes a while so if you are considering it, get the ball rolling early.

That's if you want to, of course. Personally I found it helpful, even though they didn't find anything, they've ruled out a few what ifs.

Take care of yourself x

 

[Lilmisshopeful]

Oh hun I'm so sorry to see this. It will happen hun don't give up hope xxx

 

[lisey]

Oh cosmo, I am so sorry you are going through this again. It's so sad and truly so unfair. I am sure they will refer you for tests if that's what you want. It is quite a long road from referral to results but I have found it helpful and relieved some of my worries and anxieties. Its probably not at the forefront of your mind right now though. Sending virtual hugs to you x

 

[Cosmogirl7]

Thanks girls, obviously I'm really sad just now as many of you have experienced. The thought of time going by and still no wee baby is worrying me as I turn 30 in 2 weeks.

I seen a recurrent miscarriage specialist doctor yesterday so she's going to sort out a whole bunch of tests to get to the bottom of things. I can't really face it just now but at the same time I don't want to delay things further so will need to get the ball rolling with that soon.

Thanks for all your lovely words, means a lot xxx

 

[Bubblesch83]

I am so sorry xxx

 

[megsmeadow]

Oh Cosmo, that's terrible news! I had seen your worrying post in tri 1 but hoped for a brighter outcome. I hope they can offer some help as the heartbreak must be so hard. Take good care of yourself!! xx

 

[cornishfairy]

So sorry cosmo I'd really hoped it would all work out ok for you. I still find it hard to think about my one mc so I can't even begin to imagine how you must be feeling. I'm glad to hear that they are going to do rmc tests. You will get that baby in your arms, it just sucks that it's proving to be such a painful journey to get there. Xxxxxx

 

[Emmajaine]

So sorry to hear that hon, sending healing thoughts your way xx

 

[fun1uk]

Huge hugs Cosmo. Xxx

 

[Natalilly1288]

Massive hugs Hun this seems so unfair but never give up hope xxxxxxx