3rd loss in a row

[dita_parlo]

I just don't know what to do anymore. I really thought this one was it; with my other pregnancies, I've had that 'dread' since I got a positive test, with this one I felt so good and it felt so right and now it's been taken away from us again

TTC and getting a positive test is supposed to be an exciting happy experience. Now for us it's turned into a moment of dread and sadness. I don't understand why this keeps happening to us???? What's wrong with me? I don't smoke, drink, I exercise regularly, I'm not overweight, I'm only 26, never been on the pill, have regular 27 day cycles. I don't understand why this keeps happening. Now that I'm onto my 3rd loss I'm now more likely to have a miscarriage than a healthy pregnancy. I'm just at a loss now.

 

[Lettie]

so sorry to read this dita x

 

[Mummy2Adam]

Sending you massive Have you tried a different test hunny, im sure i read somewhere that digi's dont work for some people, i might be wrong but its worth a try hunny. Fingers and toes crossed for some good news for you x x

 

[positivity :)]

so sorry dita! xxx

 

[cosmicgirl]

So sorry dita x

 

[tinselcat]

oh no, I'm so upset for you

I have read that there can sometimes be a simple reason & fix for recurrent m/cs so I hope your doctors will get cracking and help you find out why

update: just saw your diary entry... am wondering the same as M2A - maybe the test got it wrong/was not sensitive enough? if AF hasn't started then things may be ok... really hope so xxx

sending you the best of wishes from afar

 

[LD1978]

Oh no!! Im so sorry! Have you tried charting your cycles as that can give an idea of where problems may lie.

I would definitely say get to the docs as it could be something so simple that just needs some tablets (like a hormone inbalance or something) Ive been reading taking charge of your fertility and so many things can be easily solved.

I know its tough but I have no doubts it will happen for you xx

 

[Butterflykisses]

So sorry xxx

 

[laurat]

Im sorry dita! I would definetly go to the docs to see what they say!

 

[twilly]

Oh no! I cannnot believe I am reading this Dita.
I am so sorry. I don't know what to say!
Really thought this was it too.
It's not your fault, you are doing all the right things.
Lots of love xxxx

 

[LouiseB]

Oh no

I'm sorry Dita

The things i always suggest are basically baby aspirin everyday and plenty of water. I don't suppose it's much help right now, but definately find yourself a compassionate GP

 

[MissJuly10]

So sorry to hear this Dita.

Take care of yourself. x x

 

[Spinneygirl]

So sorry Dita, take care xxx

 

[k8_005]

hi dita sorry to hear this,, sending a big hug x

 

[heartbroken]

So sorry hunni xx

 

[1986princess]

So sorry honey xxx

 

[Nurse 26]

Hey hun, so sorry to hear this. As you know i am on my second loss and had D&C today. I've just started testing involving LOTS of blood tests and if they come back clear possibly an HSG thing, Dr said uterus looks healthy form ultrasound though.

Are you going to your GP? they should do tests now that you have had 3 losses Hope you are ok hun. Thinking of you. xx

 

[mustard]

thinking of you

 

[LoopyLouize]

I'm so sorry hun xx

 

[maybe baby]

Oh no I'm so sorry Dita, I've had 1 M/C and 3 chemicals now, I'm already seeing a fertility doc, I have an appointment on Friday next week, I know everyone is different but I'll fill you in on what they say anyway.

If you need any tips for speaking to the docs give me a shout.

xx