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Unfortunately I am not holding much hope for a bfp this time because we did not BD when I got that dark line, or last night. Yesterday's OPK was a bit lighter. So we've had no sex for 3 nights now and I feel completely fecked off.
It's like I've wasted all these opks and last night, I actually got EWCM for the first time in this cycle. Only a little bit but it was there! Also, I've had twingy mild crampy feelings yesterday and I was so fecked off when we went to bed that I just could have cried and cried.
*PLEASE* let my ovulation be around the corner, I'm praying and praying we haven't missed it!
Oh honey, I dont think you've missed it at all! I got tiny amount ewcm 1 or 2 days before my surge, just make sure you bd today. Keep up the OPKs I think you're ok. 3 days is fine to not bd cos sperm last up to 7 days. Just think, it will be high quality sperm with loads of va va voom that you can have today. You are also fertile 12 to 24 hours or even more after ov starts so you are still most deffo in with a chance.....
Aww don't worry about it hunny, as Tracey said, think of all that quality sperm thats built up now! Could definitely be a nice way to see in a new year!
Have a lovely time tonight, sometimes the best nights are the ones you're not really up for xxx
awh hun dont let it get you down, maybe ur right about the testing? let things happen when they should. I was reading today and from all the info you given u seem to have irregular cycles and people with these tend to have weird timing for bd, I quote ''some women can get pregnant as early as CD4'' whilst others much further into their cycles so take the pressure off yourself. If your feeling sick from this then its putting strain and stress on urself and thats not fair. You want this to be a great experience and ur only 4 months in training, average is six months for a healthy person and for many it takes a year. Look at starfish took 2 years buts shes there. My friend was telling me it took her 4 years and now she has two!!! xxx
No probs sylvie - thats my aim. I can see ur only 4 months too. My friend was so funny she text me and said 'yano how long I was trying for this lil one.... well i just figured it would take ages again so not bn using anything, im up the duffer AGAIN mega happy'' yes hes only 9 months and another on the way. Its the way of it and proves when ya just let it be that what happens. its not just me up at this mad hour then??xx
I don't think the TTC is stressing me out, it was purely missing those three nights where we could have BDed, I felt like it was a waste!
Feeling much better about things today, don't know why but when I eventually fell asleep last night, I had the most amazing feeling of calm over me and I just KNOW I felt different about this cycle. I had been praying like mad about having a baby this year (or getting my bfp this month... ) and then all of a sudden it was like a huge weight lifted off me, it's hard to explain really. This year will be a brilliant year!!
Well I was on the pill for 3 weeks when I got married in July as I didn't want AF to spoil the big day or my 2 week honeymoon lol. I stopped it when I got back though. I have never ever used it before then.
oh right good thinking ive been on it about 11 years eeeek. bad move. Dont feel sad hun it will happen for u, its defo not been wasted, look at ur opks, ur a all ova the place cycle, just do it as much as possible. Like u said u didnt know for sure what the sticks say, try the expensive ones for a week, they 3 for 2 in boots or cheaper on ebay??? From what ive read the cheapie ones arent always reliable. The main thing is they are not all white therefore u are ovulating, just a matter of when. Get a bit of Barry white on and seduce that man of urs. U could have themed days to keep things interesting?!?! Princess laia LOL!!! or like naughty santa!!! xx
Well the good thing is aside from those 3 nights, we had BDed every single night so we got lots of BDing in, plus we BDed last night too.
I'd love to get a clear blue fertility monitor but I won't. We will finish this cycle with the cheapie opks and if I do get AF then next cycle, we won't be using anything at all. The thing is, with my cycles, I would end up buying more of the expensive opks just to make sure etc so it wouldn't really work well for me. The cheapies will do me fine for now cos we're BDing as much as possible and that's really all you can do isn't it?
CD35 today so over halfway there already.
My last cycle was 65 days and the cycle before was 42. x x
yes ur right just get down to it with the gold bikini on and dried out donuts around ur ears
wooo theres a monitor i didnt know that, oh dear. Defo do what you said and we are all different, and yano what they say just because you measure a plant everyday doesnt mean it will grow any faster, just enjoy it. I kno its not exactly the same situation but hey close enough. I kno someone who was pregnant and got AF?! whats that about hopefully a for you soon when ya testing xx
dam those cycles they testing!! dya think instead of u thinking you get 60 and 45 days u get mini ones of 23 and 31 and are just not bleeding?? is there any type of spotting in the middle? only saying because ur CD19 was high and another one was high? Im clueless at these things and sure u kno more!!
£70?? hmmm ill wait till ive been trying 6 months n see then!!! xx
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