After the birth

[1986princess]

Oh god not thought about this, suppose everyone will wana cone and see the twinnies quite soon but suppose Il have to see wen were ready! X

 

[BevG]

im pretty confident that only my mum and dad and OH's sister and her fella will even be likely to visit, only other person thats even a possibility is OH's dad and theyre all more than welcome to drop in whenever and come to the hosp if they like.

 

[positivity :)]

I'm so worried about struggling with the newborn (and this is probs going to sound terrible) but how I look! I don't want people to think I'm failing,

that's a good point actually xx

 

[pinkyprincess]

Just tried to talk to OH about it and he's gone mad and is pissed off because 'he's not making any choices' I told him to read my preg books to get an idea of what I'll be going through and he said no because there all a load of crap. Actually really upset now!

 

[positivity :)]

ultimately as far as i'm concerned if u feel really strongly about it then he should support you! he's not going thru labour and i know that might sound like a cliche but its true! hope ur ok xx

 

[pinkyprincess]

I know. He's just 'sensitive' to what he's seeing as criticism when I'm trying to have a conversation about what's going to be best for us! He doesn't seem to be as excited about the baby and gets annoyed when I always talk about him but if I leave him out he thinks I'm making it all about me :s can't really win!

 

[Kirstieplus1]

I'm in a tricky situation... My oh is now ex oh as he tried to make me have a termination (even tho we were together 5.5yrs) and then he cheated on me.

He says he might come to the birth but I'm not sure. Originally I didn't like the though of my mum being there seeing me in all my glory etc but if I dont have her I wont have anyone... Any suggestions?

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[niknaks]

Originally I didn't like the though of my mum being there seeing me in all my glory etc but if I dont have her I wont have anyone... Any suggestions?

i agree with you about your mum seeing you in that way. im like that too, but also its only me my mum n oh at home, my sis is at uni and will only be coming down a few days at xmas then shes got a week of in jan (aunty duties me thinks hehe) i only wanted my oh in with me while im giving birth but now my dads gone im thinking i feel bad my mum who will prob come hospital with us will be sat outside waiting for us. if my sis was there it would be diff. but she hasnt said anything yet so kinda gonna wait and see. as for visitors, i dont mind at the moment anyway, as long as they leave the room when im feeding, even gonna ask my mum too. dont fancy flopping my breasts out in front of people. i know theres laws allowing public breast feeding etc, but that aint for me lol even used to run into a cubicle at the gym or to the loos lol

oh and kirstie i think if you feel you can cope with your mum there then that will be good if not do you have any close friends that could be there with you? or you could just ask your mum to stay at the top end? x