i need some advice,
My dad is getting married on the 7th of july,
thing is i have never got along with the fiance, ever... shes always treated me diferent, and tried to treat me like her own as in like telling me what to do and treating me like a little kid, she was nasty to me from the start saying (in my own house) that i couldnt have my music on cos it was offencsive to her 11 year old and stuf.. blah i have NEVER excepted they are together and i rarely see my dad becasue i "have to accept that he has a new family" before i can kinda thing, and i dont, hes always tried to push her on me. and i just got annoyed with it.
we fell out really badly last year over it because he said he couldnt see me as he had to make time for her and her kids, which he treats more like his than he does me and my brother, he always puts her before us and stuff and treats me like shit compared to how he used to. he takes them on holiday gives the kids my pocket money and stuff.. eurgh angry.
thing is i posted on here that my grandad died, and it was his dad, well i said id go to the wedding cos at the time i felt bad if i wasnt there becasue of it all.
but i decided that i really really dont want to do to the wedding, becasue i DO NOT accept they are together, i still think hes making a mistake and i am not happy for him,
if i sit there in that room and watch them get married isnt tht saying im happy for him and i accept shes part of the family now? when i dont..
its lying to him isnt it..
ive got to tell him today when he comes round i feel it would be for the best, cos i really dont agree with it. i know itll hurt him and everything, but i would rather tell the truth than sit there are lie.
another thing that annoys me is that he seems to think shes going to be nanny to my child and that her kids are going to be "auntie and uncle" which they are not co they are not and never will be related to me.
what to do think please..
advice please...
My dad is getting married on the 7th of july,
thing is i have never got along with the fiance, ever... shes always treated me diferent, and tried to treat me like her own as in like telling me what to do and treating me like a little kid, she was nasty to me from the start saying (in my own house) that i couldnt have my music on cos it was offencsive to her 11 year old and stuf.. blah i have NEVER excepted they are together and i rarely see my dad becasue i "have to accept that he has a new family" before i can kinda thing, and i dont, hes always tried to push her on me. and i just got annoyed with it.
we fell out really badly last year over it because he said he couldnt see me as he had to make time for her and her kids, which he treats more like his than he does me and my brother, he always puts her before us and stuff and treats me like shit compared to how he used to. he takes them on holiday gives the kids my pocket money and stuff.. eurgh angry.
thing is i posted on here that my grandad died, and it was his dad, well i said id go to the wedding cos at the time i felt bad if i wasnt there becasue of it all.
but i decided that i really really dont want to do to the wedding, becasue i DO NOT accept they are together, i still think hes making a mistake and i am not happy for him,
if i sit there in that room and watch them get married isnt tht saying im happy for him and i accept shes part of the family now? when i dont..
its lying to him isnt it..
ive got to tell him today when he comes round i feel it would be for the best, cos i really dont agree with it. i know itll hurt him and everything, but i would rather tell the truth than sit there are lie.
another thing that annoys me is that he seems to think shes going to be nanny to my child and that her kids are going to be "auntie and uncle" which they are not co they are not and never will be related to me.
what to do think please..
advice please...