Babymakes5
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Hi everyone. I'm 31 and I've been single for almost a year now,since my husband of 10 years left me for my best friend. We have 4 children,age 9,7,5 & 3. I have been dating someone for a while but it's over as he didn't want anything serious,and I found out yesterday morning that I'm 4 weeks pregnant. He's refusing to speak to me about it,says he's too busy,but I think he's just in shock. My friends think I'm mad to keep the baby but I could never bring myself to have an abortion,and it may be my last chance to have a baby. We have recently found the cancer gene in our family,so I have to be tested soon. My mum is positive and is having a mastectomy and hysterectomy after Christmas,and this will be my option if I'm positive too. I am also moving house soon,and my divorce has just come through. I'm scared that I'm taking on a bit too much and that I'm not going to be able to cope as a single parent of 5. I also had SPD with my last two pregnancies and my children and I all have a connective tissue disorder,which makes our joints too bendy and at risk of dislocation. Am I absolutely stark raving bonkers?! And what do I do if I can't cope? I'm so confused right now as I'm also overjoyed at the thought of having another baby. Help!!