5/6 DPO .... Anyone with me?

I'm in a really difficult situation, I love my husband , we've been together since I was 16 ...I just wish I was pregnant with his baby not her...and that sounds so selfish im sorry it's not that I dont want them to have a baby and if we'd gone about it in a different way it coukd of been a lot eaiser to deal with

..We had a row about TTC the other day and he said to me its obviously not my problem is it?!! I just cried and he said sorry

just glad I've been able to tell you all, and thank you for not judging me

I've got really bad cramps now, just want to snuggle my little boy but I'm at work all afternoon :( xxxx



You have every right to feel how you are feeling so don't say sorry. You're allowed to be selfish he is YOUR husband. How would he feel if you were carrying another mans child for them? Your egg and the other blokes sperm? Has he thought about that?

And I'm sorry what? Have a laugh not his fault? Yeah okay why don't you climb on top of yourself and get yourself pregnant if it's that easy?! Sorry for being sarcastic but that's what I would of said to my OH if he dared to say that. I kind of need your sperm mate so yeah it is your problem!

Ooooo I can taste the wine already! Roll on Crimbo hey?! XxxX
 
I'm in a really difficult situation, I love my husband , we've been together since I was 16 ...I just wish I was pregnant with his baby not her...and that sounds so selfish im sorry it's not that I dont want them to have a baby and if we'd gone about it in a different way it coukd of been a lot eaiser to deal with

..We had a row about TTC the other day and he said to me its obviously not my problem is it?!! I just cried and he said sorry

just glad I've been able to tell you all, and thank you for not judging me

I've got really bad cramps now, just want to snuggle my little boy but I'm at work all afternoon :( xxxx



You have every right to feel how you are feeling so don't say sorry. You're allowed to be selfish he is YOUR husband. How would he feel if you were carrying another mans child for them? Your egg and the other blokes sperm? Has he thought about that?

And I'm sorry what? Have a laugh not his fault? Yeah okay why don't you climb on top of yourself and get yourself pregnant if it's that easy?! Sorry for being sarcastic but that's what I would of said to my OH if he dared to say that. I kind of need your sperm mate so yeah it is your problem!

Ooooo I can taste the wine already! Roll on Crimbo hey?! XxxX
Thanks Em

I'm looking foward to a glass of wine at Christmas :)

Feeling better that AF has arrived, was getting really fed up with BFN's ....now it's countdown to ovulation!! Lol
 
Bless ya I hope you're feeling a little better now...

OH gave me my xmas present early - he is like a kid he gets far to excited!!

Can't wait to see my nephews faces on Christmas morning :-) you're little boy looking forward to Santa coming?!

XxxX
 
Bless ya I hope you're feeling a little better now...

OH gave me my xmas present early - he is like a kid he gets far to excited!!

Can't wait to see my nephews faces on Christmas morning :-) you're little boy looking forward to Santa coming?!

XxxX
I'm really looking forward to Christmas now, i cant wait to see my Little boys face when he sees all his presents, he just about understands Christmas even tho he's only 2 1/2
Are you staying with your family for Christmas? Bet it will be lovely to see them :)

AF is in full flow but at least I'm not in limbo

Xxxx
 
Sorry such a busy day at work haven't even checked my phone!!

Emma I remember u saying that I just can't believe he has gone ahead. I understand so much why u feel like u do and trust me I would feel exactly the same!!!!! I really do hope your okay.

I'm happy that u can get on with things now af has turned up but so sorry that she has and not your bfp!

New Years bfps girls, Christmas cheer and positive thoughts.

You are all amazing ladies xxxx
 
Yes glad you're not in limbo now babe!

Hope everyone is okay and had a good day!

When do you all finish for Christmas?

Here's something that will make you laugh... My ex text me "hey stranger how are you?"

I beg your pardon! Don't try and enter my life after 4years.... SATAN GO AWAY!

XxxX
 
So pleased your not in limbo anymore Emma.

The cheek of it Em, why does he think he can just text and make his way back into your life?

2 more days to go until Santa arrives, so excited. I love this time of year. What is everyone hoping to get from Santa?

Michelle x
 
So pleased your not in limbo anymore Emma.

The cheek of it Em, why does he think he can just text and make his way back into your life?

2 more days to go until Santa arrives, so excited. I love this time of year. What is everyone hoping to get from Santa?

Michelle x



God knows! He is engaged to my old best friend now and I haven't heard or seen from him in 4years - didn't bother to reply! What a loser!

I love Christmas too! I have no idea what I will be getting usually we make it all about the kids but I know my parents will get us adults something! I really hope this time next year we all have our babies with us to celebrate!!

XxxX
 
Text him back - satan be gone! Ha. How very strange!!!! Obv still hung up...

I'm so excited for Christmas .. Nervous about the big reveal tho, keep swaying away from the idea so anxious. Just incase all isn't well don't want to put my lovely family thru it.

Michelle I have no idea what I'm getting at all... How about u?

I would love some comfy new joggers right now for my bloated tummy maybe Santa could bring me those? Ha x
 
Hi ladies - no sign on AF and due in tomorrow....but negative tests! I think if I were pregnant then I would have a BFP by now - still got loads of IC's so will test every morning if AF doesn't come! I may have ovulated late as I stopped testing after my first positive! Time will tell I suppose! Xx
 
Not sure what Santa is going to bring me this year. I just can't wait to spend my 1st Christmas as a Mummy x

Michelle x
 
Fx it's just a shy bean Hutchy and you get a lovely BFP for Christmas x

Michelle x
 
Hi girls,
Been so busy with last minute Christmas shopping and working, hope you all have a wonderful Christmas and FX for New year BFP'S so we can join you on tri 1 in the new year
Thank you for your support :) xxxx
 
Hi everyone so busy too ! Love Christmas tho.

Will let u all know how big reveal goes! Probably be on here around Boxing Day.

Hope you all have amazing times with your families , thank u for all your support.

Lots of love x merry Christmas xx
 
Just popping on to say merry Christmas you lovely girls! Hope you all have a wonderful day!

Jess I'll be stalking for the big reveal, sounds fab and your family will love it.

Hope AF Isn't too painful for you girls!

I'm CD39 and still no AF. I'm officially late now. I'm cramping a bit tho but nothing so still in limbo. If she holds of until the weekend then I'll test.

Enjoy your Christmas days!!

Xxxxx
 
Morning girls,
Merry Christmas hope you all had a lovely day yesterday, it was amazing to see my little boy open all his presents and to spend time with family

Hope your big reveal went well jess, let us know what happened

AF nearly finished which is nice as I flooded Christmas eve :(

CD 4 not long till I start testing for ovulation I think I will start testing on day 7 I know that's early but due to my odd cycle this month I font know what's going on with my body so I'm going to do the sperm meets egg plan and just DTD every other day from CD7.


Oh and I've told my hubby im not happy and never Will be but didn't want to make a big thing of it just before Christmas
His auntie and uncle actually came yesterday for Christmas dinner

I told her we hadn't been lucky enough to concive this month and she said I didn't even know you were trying? ?
My OH said she did but probably didn't understand when his uncle had explained but as she is very. limited at speaking and understanding English

God I just can't get my head round it :eek:
 
Hey ladies. Merry Christmas! Santa got me an engagement ring!! :)

Hope you're okay Emma, I hope he understands the upset he has caused!
 
Congratulations on getting engaged Lolie

I hope your OH knows how much he has upset you Emma, still can't believe he did it without your approval.

Hope the big reveal went really well yesterday Jess

Michelle x
 
Congratulations Lolie
Thanks girls, coping with boxing day with auntie and uncle being at mum in laws , everyone congratulating her
.....oh well I'm being a selfish cow but why can't I be pregnant if she is, im sorry but very upset still xxx
 
Merry Christmas everyone hope you all had a great day yesterday and a lovely boxing day!

Hope the reveal went well Jess & congrats on the engagement Lolie!

Emma - you're only human my darling I would be livid especially if they are there flaunting it infront of me at Xmas; do your family know it's your OHs doing that is why they expecting? Maybe now she knows you are trying she will understand why your not exactly beaming for them!

Any New Years plans? Emma my AF has finished now too as of today so we may be on the same cycle again this month!

Not going to track anything this month - no cm no cervix nothing I just get too pressured im going to just DTD with OH when it happens and see if my AF arrives.

Love you all XxxX
 

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