5/6 DPO .... Anyone with me?

[Balthazar1275]

Aww Jess that sounds lovely, I bet their will be tears of joy from everyone when they see that. So lovely x

Michelle x

 

[angel6901]

Thank u ladies. I really hope u get your bfps! In time for Xmas too.

It's a bit early for me to tell families esp before a scan but we just both feel like we have to tell close families for support!

We have too very large boxes wrapped up , with a lid. Asking our parents to lift the lids off ( one for each house ) as splitting Xmas. Inside 3 pink balloons and 3 blue ballooned helium so they'll pop out , then a card attached baby coming soon.

Bottom of box a poem framed for each parent -

I do not have a face to see
I do not have a name ( if anyone knows that!)

I am excited just anxious.

My oh bought me a little baby grow today and it says I love mummy , he's being amazing x

Awww Jess I'm so happy for you, it's lovely that you can tell your families at Christmas. ..the best Christmas gift ever

Your OH is so sweet buying you that, bless him xxxx

 

[Jess07]

The poem is so beautiful it's a bit long to paste on here but if u have a look it's just gorgeous.

Oh really wants to tell everyone and I just think it might be a bit one sided as baby is inside me so any chance I can get to do things he would like to do I will.... Fx my family are pleased! Don't know what to expect!!

No one knew we were trying , I think my sisters will cry ha.

Can't wait!!!

Michelle are u doing anything?

How's your symptoms girls any dr appts booked?? X

 

[angel6901]

Hi ladies,

I didn't test this morning but I did buy some so I'll do one in the morning! I don't feel like AF is on its way at all - I usually have cramps 1-2 days before and start spotting! I've had cramps a few times but it dies down within an hour or so! So confused!
I'm due AF on Wednesday so I will test in the morning - if it's negative then I will just wait for my period!

Hope everyone else is ok xx

Good luck testing in the morning hun, I think it's going to be my last test day before Christmas so will test with you

Thats unless AF pays a visit overnight!

Night ladies xxx

 

[angel6901]

The poem is so beautiful it's a bit long to paste on here but if u have a look it's just gorgeous.

Oh really wants to tell everyone and I just think it might be a bit one sided as baby is inside me so any chance I can get to do things he would like to do I will.... Fx my family are pleased! Don't know what to expect!!

No one knew we were trying , I think my sisters will cry ha.

Can't wait!!!

Michelle are u doing anything?

How's your symptoms girls any dr appts booked?? X

Well I've still got symptoms like loads of Cm backache and sore boobs, still weeing quite a lot but no cramps today ...god what's going on with my stupid body!!!
I'm testing again tomorrow and if BFN im not testing again and I'll just wait for AF ...and enjoy Christmas

I know deep down im not pregnant and I'm sure i will be joining Em soon... once the witch gets me... FX for our Bfps in January xxxx

 

[Jess07]

That's still so promising !!!

Fx ladies I'm working early doors up at 5 but will check in as soon as I can.

Good luck!! X

 

[WishingHoping]

Morning girls,

Emma let us know how you get on?! FX for your BFP - must be so frustrating now.

Jess - so excited for you guys to tell your families!!

Can't believe its Christmas Eve-Eve

XxxX

 

[angel6901]

BFN again
God im so frustrated CD 35 20 dpo and AF officially 1 week late
We DTD last night as I thought it may bring AF on but no!!

Feel like crying

 

[WishingHoping]

BFN again
Gid im so frustrated CD 35 20 dpo and AF officially 1 week late
We DTD last night as I thought it may bring AF on but no!!

Feel like crying

Oh babe I really don't know what to recommend? Maybe as you relax over xmas it will come - sometimes we don't realise how stress can have an affect on our cycle, could be to do with getting ready for xmas & finishing work for the year & your son having that accident & worrying about BFPs - subconsciously it messes with us.

Try a hot bath again and rub your stomach that's what I did & it worked.

You just feel so frustrated!!

Big hugs

XxxX

 

[angel6901]

BFN again
Gid im so frustrated CD 35 20 dpo and AF officially 1 week late
We DTD last night as I thought it may bring AF on but no!!

Feel like crying

Oh babe I really don't know what to recommend? Maybe as you relax over xmas it will come - sometimes we don't realise how stress can have an affect on our cycle, could be to do with getting ready for xmas & finishing work for the year & your son having that accident & worrying about BFPs - subconsciously it messes with us.

Try a hot bath again and rub your stomach that's what I did & it worked.

You just feel so frustrated!!

Big hugs

XxxX

I think I am a bit stressed but the biggest stress is not knowing if I'm pregnant or not,

it's definitely BFN this morning so I know im not...which I knew anyway but I thought it's worth another test

I think I need to relax and try not to think about it then it may come

Can't believe I'm wanting AF to come!!!

How are you feeling now? I want AF to come so we can be cycle buddies! I don't want to be too far behind you

Thank u for being so nice

 

[WishingHoping]

Hun you've been lovely to me so I am only gonna be there for you too!

It's tough this TTC stuff & only people who go through it can understand

Haha yeah wanting AF to come is normal by now I think! Is this the longest cycle you have had?

Being 2/3days late has taught me not to test early anymore - also makes me doubt that how am I ever going to know I am pregnant if my cycle gets later! Grr!

My friend had a period then 2weeks later she did a test as she felt different and she was 6/7weeks pregnant! Madness!

I hope you do enjoy Xmas & AF arrives so we can get back at it over New Year.

I cannot wait for AF to finish now; im like "okay okay enough I get the point"

Will you be tracking this month or just take the relaxed approach? I am not going to track anything and just do it when it feels natural; I think I'm putting too much pressure on myself.

XxxX

 

[angel6901]

Hun you've been lovely to me so I am only gonna be there for you too!

It's tough this TTC stuff & only people who go through it can understand

Haha yeah wanting AF to come is normal by now I think! Is this the longest cycle you have had?

Being 2/3days late has taught me not to test early anymore - also makes me doubt that how am I ever going to know I am pregnant if my cycle gets later! Grr!

My friend had a period then 2weeks later she did a test as she felt different and she was 6/7weeks pregnant! Madness!

I hope you do enjoy Xmas & AF arrives so we can get back at it over New Year.

I cannot wait for AF to finish now; im like "okay okay enough I get the point"

Will you be tracking this month or just take the relaxed approach? I am not going to track anything and just do it when it feels natural; I think I'm putting too much pressure on myself.

XxxX

Thanks hun, I really appreciate your support

I have another stress going on at the moment and I have wrote about it on this forum before but since then there has been developments and to be honest I think it's the main reason I'm stressed

My OH auntie and uncle have been struggling to concive as he had a vasectomy reversal and although it had been successful she still hasn't got pregnant. ..
My OH had offered to 'donate' do they could have a baby, he thinks he's being a saint and he wouldn't think of the child as his? I wasnt happy about this but he went ahead and did it and Guess what I found out 2 weeks ago...she's pregnant

My OH doesn't understand why I'm stressed

Sorry I didnt tell you all before now i just had to to get it off my chest as I'm going crazy thinking about it xxx

 

[angel6901]

I'm sorry I had to share that, it's just been upsetting me so much xxx

 

[Balthazar1275]

Omg, I can't believe he doesn't understand why your so stressed. That's insane. I mean Its a nice gesture helping his Uncle out but you should come first. Men can be so insensitive sometimes.
I really don't know what else to say huni xx

Michelle x

 

[angel6901]

Omg, I can't believe he doesn't understand why your so stressed. That's insane. I mean Its a nice gesture helping his Uncle out but you should come first. Men can be so insensitive sometimes.
I really don't know what else to say huni xx

Michelle x

Thanks Hun,

I don't have anyone to talk to and I couldn't keep it inside any longer, I am happy for his Auntie and Uncle but I'm really annoyed the way he went about doing it ,

Anyway AF still not here and I'm peeing for England this morning, I'm thinking did I just Ovulate really late?

I'm trying to think Positive

xxx

 

[WishingHoping]

Oh wow Emma.

It's lovely he is helping them out don't get me wrong but yes it must be very difficult for you. Does he understand how you feel; that you're not upset she is pregnant more the fact that you aren't & it's difficult for you?

I completley see it from your side as I would be the same but we have to look at it from your OHs side too: in my experience men see things very black and white they don't use the same emotions are we do so to him he sees he has done what he was right for them (donating) and as its worked so he is thinking he has done a good job. He doesn't see the affects it has on you. He probably assumes "it will happen when it happens" with you and him but unfortunatley that's not how we are programmed; we want to be mummies & although it's the mens sperm we need we can't help but feel useless when we don't fall pregnant. Especially when everyone else around us is pregnant or fall pregnant while we are still trying! Let alone with your OHs swimmers!

Life has a strange way of working sometimes & although it doesn't make sense & sometimes we don't neccesarily agree or like what happens we cannot change fate, it's already been decided. We just have to carry on & know that everyrjing will be okay in the end my darling.

Defo wish I could hug you!

XxxX

 

[Lolie14]

Emma, I remember that thread and I remember commenting. How dare he go ahead! This child will be your little boys biological sibling! I am so cross and I completely understand why you are so upset. To be honest I don't know if I could forgive my OH.

 

[angel6901]

Well im sat in the car at work in floods of tears...im just so upset with everything. ..and I should of said something earlier im sorry ...oh and i think it did my good to get it off my chest as AF has arrived

finally not in limbo

Thank you so much for your support girls xxxx

 

[WishingHoping]

Well im sat in the car at work in floods of tears...im just so upset with everything. ..and I should of said something earlier im sorry ...oh and i think it did my good to get it off my chest as AF has arrived

finally not in limbo

Thank you so much for your support girls xxxx

Darling I am glad AF has finally arrived for you & I am so happy that you feel okay to tell us this. Jess is right I would be livid but how you handle this is upto you as its your relationship.

I really hope your OH knows how this is affecting you; it's not healthy. Maybe you should explain to him that your period finally came because you broke down about his auntie being pregnant and that it has affected you a lot.

XxxX

 

[angel6901]

I'm in a really difficult situation, I love my husband , we've been together since I was 16 ...I just wish I was pregnant with his baby not her...and that sounds so selfish im sorry it's not that I dont want them to have a baby and if we'd gone about it in a different way it coukd of been a lot eaiser to deal with

..We had a row about TTC the other day and he said to me its obviously not my problem is it?!! I just cried and he said sorry

just glad I've been able to tell you all, and thank you for not judging me

I've got really bad cramps now, just want to snuggle my little boy but I'm at work all afternoon xxxx