❤️Jan 2022 Testing Thread❤️

[Sunrise212]

Awww yay! Congratulations @Sugar10 praying for this one to stick!!

 

[Fsb676]

@Sugar10 Congratulations!! Wonderful news!!

I’m now 6dpo and desperately trying to keep my mind off it, not very successfully! I always overanalyse every little twinge or feeling in the tww and then try not to get my hopes up while staying positive - which is pretty much impossible! I’m also quiet at work which doesn’t help!

I’ve got a hospital app this Friday about an HSG, but I’m really hoping that I don’t need it and that cycle 15 is the one!

Maybe this will be the month! If you do end up doing the hsg, let us know how it goes. I am getting one scheduled soon….and don’t want to do it lol Hope we both get preggers first!!!

 

[Fsb676]

@clarkcharm Thankyou. Sorry about your gyne department being rubbish, hope they get you in soon. I have been waiting over a year for my sons ent appointment it’s all gone mad. Hopefully you’re ovulating now and catch hugs xxx

@LuckyLaura im also rubbish at testing and would be testing by 7dpo haha, so you should definitely test! haha. Let us know! Yes I’m thinking a little bit of brown isn’t a worry, and there isn’t any today so fingers crossed it’s all ok. I would be Around 4 weeks. Just worrying I guess!
@Fsb676 hope your appointment goes well, and you haven’t cancelled! Hope you get some answers and can hopefully get your BFP soon xxxxxxxxx

Thanks! @Sugar10 I didn’t cancel. I’m so proud of myself lol It was a new doctor, and I really liked her a lot! Running my bloods, and then possibly scheduling an hsg. It’s nice to have a plan!!!

 

[Jamla]

Maybe this will be the month! If you do end up doing the hsg, let us know how it goes. I am getting one scheduled soon….and don’t want to do it lol Hope we both get preggers first!!!

Will do - but fingers crossed neither of us need it!

 

[Sugar10]

@Sunrise212 Thankyou! Praying this sticks this time too! It’ll be due early September if it does! so maybe not far behind some in the august thread!

@Fsb676 glad you went and glad it went well and you have a plan! always good when there’s a plan!

I feel so nauseas already but I’d only be 4 weeks so it’s too early really! Probably just the anxiety.
Ive also ordered more tests feel like I’m going to be obsessed and go crazy testing to see if the lines go darker or not ! Haha.

 

[Sugar10]

I’ve started with brown/red now so another miscarriage is on the way.
Devastated .. two in a row I don’t know why it’s happening .. x x

 

[Fsb676]

I’ve started with brown/red now so another miscarriage is on the way.
Devastated .. two in a row I don’t know why it’s happening .. x x

Keep us posted, hun. Praying it turns out to be just normal. Being through it before, especially just recently is, I am sure, so concerning.

 

[Sugar10]

Definitely a miscarriage. I was trying to be so hopeful this time around, it’s so unfair I may take a few days to get my head sorted x x x

 

[Jamla]

Definitely a miscarriage. I was trying to be so hopeful this time around, it’s so unfair I may take a few days to get my head sorted x x x

So sorry to hear that. Sending you a big hug x

 

[Fsb676]

Definitely a miscarriage. I was trying to be so hopeful this time around, it’s so unfair I may take a few days to get my head sorted x x x

Take all the time you need. It’s really hard to go through. The pain never goes all the way away. Let me know if you need to chat now, or later!

 

[Sugar10]

@Fsb676 thabkyou. Just feeling really confused and upset , as I don’t think there’s anything medically wrong with us, I’m actually due a routine scan next week so might mention this and see if they can see anything sinister on it. Just wish it would work out for us , we’re so desperate for it to happen

 

[Unicorn]

I'm so sorry Sugar xx

 

[Fsb676]

@Fsb676 thabkyou. Just feeling really confused and upset , as I don’t think there’s anything medically wrong with us, I’m actually due a routine scan next week so might mention this and see if they can see anything sinister on it. Just wish it would work out for us , we’re so desperate for it to happen

Well, keep us posted! It’s good that you already have an appointment. I just had mine, as you know, but it was a long wait to get in. I know the feeling. We’ve been waiting for quite a while too, and we are pretty healthy. Hoping to get some results here soon too! I’m sure it’s hard in a different way for you though, since you didn’t have this trouble in the past. I know it makes you worry more. I’m sure they will be able to help you.

 

[Sugar10]

@Fsb676 Thankyou for your kind words. I’m sorry if I sounded selfish as I know there are people like yourself who are trying for their first baby, and that must be horrible and so stressful and I hope you get some answers and a plan to get your long awaited BFP. yes it takes so long for an appointment doesn’t it these days, mine is for something else but in the same department, so it won’t harm to mention it. And when I say I didn’t didn’t think there wa a anything medically wrong, I was probably naive to think that too, as there could be factors we don’t know about. My age could be one too. My head was just all over yesterday. anyway, I know I’m lucky to have what I already do , and I realise that even more with going through all this the last year. But let’s hope 2022 is the year for us all we aren’t giving up just yet anyway, hopefully 3rd cycle in a row lucky xxx

 

[Fsb676]

@Fsb676 Thankyou for your kind words. I’m sorry if I sounded selfish as I know there are people like yourself who are trying for their first baby, and that must be horrible and so stressful and I hope you get some answers and a plan to get your long awaited BFP. yes it takes so long for an appointment doesn’t it these days, mine is for something else but in the same department, so it won’t harm to mention it. And when I say I didn’t didn’t think there wa a anything medically wrong, I was probably naive to think that too, as there could be factors we don’t know about. My age could be one too. My head was just all over yesterday. anyway, I know I’m lucky to have what I already do , and I realise that even more with going through all this the last year. But let’s hope 2022 is the year for us all we aren’t giving up just yet anyway, hopefully 3rd cycle in a row lucky xxx

No, you were fine! I have recently come to realize it’s just really hard on everyone, but everyone’s perspective/situation is a bit different. Your pain isn’t necessarily any greater or lesser than mine or anyone else’s, it’s just different. I had a friend of mine lose her newborn at a month old. I can’t imagine. It’s hard not to have the opportunity to even hold your child, and lose it…..but it’s also hard to have already had the opportunity and be even more attached and lose it too. Each child is precious, and that’s why it affects us so much. I know what you are going through, but at the same time, your situation is unique. You weren’t being selfish, you were just expressing your pain. I know I don’t understand it 100% to your situation, but I have definitely had moments of just feeling such anguish and discouragement. I am thankful for the the forum and support to just talk it out. It’s not like you can just go up to someone and explain your pain randomly during the week. It helps to validate that you aren’t alone, at least for me. Take it easy this week.

 

[Sugar10]

@Fsb676 thankyou. That must’ve been awful for your friend I can’t imagine that at all. so sorry for that.
Yea you’re right it’s hard for everyone in a different way isn’t it. And yea it is probably easier to vent on here rather than people around you sometimes , as we are all going through something at one time or another on here. hope you’re ok? so I’m already thinking more positively just needed a couple of days. Going to get the opks back out and just keep trying. that’s all we can do
X x

 

[Fsb676]

Oh, I’m glad to here you are starting to feel better!

 

[LuckyLaura]

hey guys sorry I've been a bit down lately, my life just seems to be one long struggle at the moment. I did test in the end but it was negative and my period arrived the next day anyway. It's been a rough one this month where I just wanted to flop on my face in a dark room but nope, can't do that as I have far too many things, not enough hours in the day etc blah blah.

I'm so sorry @Sugar10 I really had hoped the bleeding wasn't anything

@Fsb676 That is truly horrific what your friend is going through, I'm so sorry. Honestly I don't know how I would even go on in that scenario. I see news stories about 2 year olds or 3 year olds even passing away from whatever reasons and I have to shut them out, I couldn't even fathom how to go on from that.

Sorry I'm depressing as hell reading that back...oops

 

[Fsb676]

hey guys sorry I've been a bit down lately, my life just seems to be one long struggle at the moment. I did test in the end but it was negative and my period arrived the next day anyway. It's been a rough one this month where I just wanted to flop on my face in a dark room but nope, can't do that as I have far too many things, not enough hours in the day etc blah blah.

I'm so sorry @Sugar10 I really had hoped the bleeding wasn't anything

@Fsb676 That is truly horrific what your friend is going through, I'm so sorry. Honestly I don't know how I would even go on in that scenario. I see news stories about 2 year olds or 3 year olds even passing away from whatever reasons and I have to shut them out, I couldn't even fathom how to go on from that.

Sorry I'm depressing as hell reading that back...oops

Awww so sorry it’s been such a rough month! Hope you start to just feel better in general soon! Glad you can share your feelings here! It’s so nice to have the extra support!

 

[Jamla]

Well, I’ve just got my period. It’s very light but I’ve given up hoping it’s an implantation bleed. I could feel it coming today, have been feeling very depressed and unmotivated.

It’s so hard to stay positive when nothing continues to happen month after month. And I felt so confident this month. Oh well, I guess the next step is the HSG.