x Mrs TS x
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I posted a while ago about worrying about telling my friend I was pregnant as I was a bridesmaid at her wedding and she'd made not so subtle hints that I needed to wait til after her wedding or be no more than 3 months gone. Anyway, we'd had a scare after an op I had last year where the surgeon mentioned we could struggle, but SHOULD be okay. Well that was enough to send us crazy as we'd desperately wanted a baby for a couple of years so we waited until I was better from that and some more procedures etc...and I fell pregnant straight away! We were over the moon.... but she wasn't.
I called her after a 9 week scan (beg of Nov) and she was...off with me as best I'd say. She said she'd have a think about what to do as I'd be 7 months at her wedding. The dress was an empire cut though so I was thinking maybe we could work some magic with it, get another one etc but I got a text about 10 mins later saying 'I think you should just be a guest'. She also said she'd just got all her stationery and my 'name was on the order of service, but oh well' so I was upset but thought fair enough, I'll still try to look forward to the day.
Well no invite came (and this is the most organised wedding on earth) and it's in April. Her friend was supposed to be letting me know some hen do details so I could sort what I was organising for it, but nothing. I put my scan pic on facebook and thought maybe she'd text to see how baby is/I am but literally not heard a thing from her since the text where she sacked me off! I went to message her yday and noticed she'd deleted me from facebook! My hubby, a couple of my friends she'd met through me too. We have been friends since meeting at uni 10 years ago and that's how she ends our friendship?!! It's like in sex in the city where thingy gets dumped by a post it on the fridge!
I really cannot believe that me having a baby has resulted in this?? I texted her asking what's going on but had no reply either. Just feels horrible that she could treat me like that although I know I'm hormonal.
Anyway I just thought I'd get it off my chest xx
I called her after a 9 week scan (beg of Nov) and she was...off with me as best I'd say. She said she'd have a think about what to do as I'd be 7 months at her wedding. The dress was an empire cut though so I was thinking maybe we could work some magic with it, get another one etc but I got a text about 10 mins later saying 'I think you should just be a guest'. She also said she'd just got all her stationery and my 'name was on the order of service, but oh well' so I was upset but thought fair enough, I'll still try to look forward to the day.
Well no invite came (and this is the most organised wedding on earth) and it's in April. Her friend was supposed to be letting me know some hen do details so I could sort what I was organising for it, but nothing. I put my scan pic on facebook and thought maybe she'd text to see how baby is/I am but literally not heard a thing from her since the text where she sacked me off! I went to message her yday and noticed she'd deleted me from facebook! My hubby, a couple of my friends she'd met through me too. We have been friends since meeting at uni 10 years ago and that's how she ends our friendship?!! It's like in sex in the city where thingy gets dumped by a post it on the fridge!
I really cannot believe that me having a baby has resulted in this?? I texted her asking what's going on but had no reply either. Just feels horrible that she could treat me like that although I know I'm hormonal.
Anyway I just thought I'd get it off my chest xx