*Rainbow* said:
I know nothing about smear tests.. :S..
Surely if you ask for one.. you should be givn one.. Especially as people have had abnormal results under the age of 25..
Im crapping myself now, as ive had a bit of a promiscuous (sp) past.. will they do one after i give birth or not?
im going through a paranoid stage atm and im convinced im going to get some horrible random illness and die or something..
x x
Yeah it's wrong if you ask for something to be refused
I'm only 22 but I got a smear done (had to ask for it!) during late pregnancy just to check because I was itching all over my body and had quite a bit of discharge (but to be honest I always have
). I was in anyway due to the baby going lazy for a few days so I had monitoring.
They should run several tests when they do your bloods at your booking in session in early preganacy
Don't know if you've ever had that?
Be positive
I've had a few partners..and although I wasn't promiscious at least one of them was while I was dating him!
but I'm clear of anything nasty
oh and re: the organs thing (someone else was asking
)...I didn't want to drag the thread off topic I just wanted to try and give a fuller view of my opinions in case it made more sense
.
In that instance though (that he's too young to understand death and implications of actions etc) I would get his dad to choose. I just wouldn't be able to bring myself to making the decision for him
His dad is more 50%/50% about that sort of thing and to be honest I think he probably would accept it. I guess I'd probably be secretly happy because obviously I'd never want to cause any of my children harm...but since it's something I wouldn't accept myself, I wouldn't want to force it on them
I've read some amazing articles of children with terminal illnesses and injuries being able to make their own decisions about their future.