laetitia85 said:I have never given birth or been hospitalised before so I have no idea what's it's like being in hospital. In my notes it says that the minimum stay for me will be 6 hours if it all goes well. that sounds so little!
After the birth/stitching/placenta delivery etc...
Are you taken from the delivery suite to a room or a ward straight away?
Do you have to shower? What are the showers like? did you have to share or did you have your own?
Do you get changed into normal clothes? or do you wear one of those hospital gowns?
Are you left on your own or do you get shown how to do things? like wash the baby, change nappis etc...
Do they bring you food?
Sorry if these sound like stupid questions but I honestly don't know.
I was put on high dependancy unit first, alone, I couldn't feel much apart from one arm and my face as was prepped for a c-section.
Then wheeled onto a ward where I was left to 'fend for myself', no food was offered and I couldn't sit up and was given a rope to use as there's a 'no lifting' policy in hospitals nowadays.
Hours later when I could just stand up I was marched to get a shower, scary but loved every minute of it, and finally got changed into clean clothes, never once wore a hospital gown, don't think you have to anywhere these days.
MW's are around, you could ask for help/assistance if needed, personally I kept to myself, the mother in me kicked in and everything seemed to happen quite naturally, but they are there for advice on cleaning, nappies, breast feeding etc They obsessed a bit where I was about breast feeding, they expect a 'routine' before you leave!!! lol Like you could establish that so quickly
I absolutely hated being in hospital personally, but I cannot fault the staff, even if they were somewhat overbearing and insensitive at times.
I think had I had family around us we'd have faired better during my 8 day stay, Isaac developed high level jaundice and had to be incubated
You can always have a visit and look around your local maternity ward, as far as I'm aware?? Give the hospital a ring and ask about pre-visits, if you haven't done so already, and very best wishes