*Hope*
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Ok hi guys, just found this section and thought i would tell you a bit about my relationship to see what you all think.
He is 5 years younger than me but we are both in our 20's. he was my brothers mate so my family have not been thrilled from the start. usually i go for lads with good jobs but this pne has been a bit of a drifter, bit lost in life. he has a good heart in general and is thrilled i am pregnant, i am his world, he is almost obsessed with me, if we argue he goes off the rails as in, if he thinks we are over, he can go into self destruct mode and has got suicidal a few times.
when we are good it is amazing. i am absolutely in love with him. he is GORGEOUS. so much so that i just like loooking at im sometimes (lol that sounds weird, but he is) we have similar views on lots of things. except out families, he comes from a poor type family who swear etc, nd my family although they are lovely are a bit snobby towards him and think because he doesnt work (yet) he is a total waste of space loser an no where near good enough for me. they constantly slag him off and make me feel bad for loving him, and when he has his immature moments it just gives them more amunition.
I have trid breaking up with him following one or two of his bratt moments but i love him so much (as well as trust him loads, and i usually have insecurity issues) and he is my babys daddy, and i really honestly think he will change and be the provier i always wanted. I just hate that so far he hasnt proved it, and also how quick to dismiss him my family are... my step dad even told me to pretend im getting an abortion to him!!!! i would never do that but just so you get the idea of how they feel about him.
its so not ideal and would love anyones opinons or similar experiences or any comments really xx
He is 5 years younger than me but we are both in our 20's. he was my brothers mate so my family have not been thrilled from the start. usually i go for lads with good jobs but this pne has been a bit of a drifter, bit lost in life. he has a good heart in general and is thrilled i am pregnant, i am his world, he is almost obsessed with me, if we argue he goes off the rails as in, if he thinks we are over, he can go into self destruct mode and has got suicidal a few times.
when we are good it is amazing. i am absolutely in love with him. he is GORGEOUS. so much so that i just like loooking at im sometimes (lol that sounds weird, but he is) we have similar views on lots of things. except out families, he comes from a poor type family who swear etc, nd my family although they are lovely are a bit snobby towards him and think because he doesnt work (yet) he is a total waste of space loser an no where near good enough for me. they constantly slag him off and make me feel bad for loving him, and when he has his immature moments it just gives them more amunition.
I have trid breaking up with him following one or two of his bratt moments but i love him so much (as well as trust him loads, and i usually have insecurity issues) and he is my babys daddy, and i really honestly think he will change and be the provier i always wanted. I just hate that so far he hasnt proved it, and also how quick to dismiss him my family are... my step dad even told me to pretend im getting an abortion to him!!!! i would never do that but just so you get the idea of how they feel about him.
its so not ideal and would love anyones opinons or similar experiences or any comments really xx