Same with us Lucylastic - although we'd love to buy whatever took our fancy, we simply can't afford to. Everything we've bought has been essential items, stuff to get us through the first 12 months clothes wise, cheap and cheerful, sale buys where possible.
I did some research into how much people generally spent before baby arrived etc, I was shocked to say the least! It spurred me on to work within a certain budget and so far, so good. I'd be annoyed at myself if we spent more than necessary haha.
I'd love to have been like that the first time. We spent over £4000 in the space of 2 weeks on baby stuff!
Gosh, I don't think I've ever even had £4,000 in one go to spend it in the space of 2 weeks! We're sticking to £1,500 as our budget, which covers everything including big purchases like furniture/travel system etc. I'm really glad we've stayed within budget so far.
Of course if we had the money to spend on whatever we wanted, I'm sure I'd be less restrained! But neither of us have high incomes and even £1,500 is a LOT to us!
I've possibly taken organisation to the overkill though, I've had a spreadsheet to keep on top of all purchases and to make sure we stay within budget haha!