"Was it planned?" - yes it was!!!

[BKR123]

I was asked by my midwife if it was planned, when I said no she asked if I even knew who the father was! She wasn't quite sure what to say when I said yes, we live together, been together 3 years and both work! I get it because I'm 19, and your getting it for being 42; can't win either way!!

Congratulations though x

 

[cw25]

I think ever pregnant woman gets asked this no matter their age or circumstance unless of course everyone knew they were trying... I wouldn't take it personally or to heart it's just one of those questions people are nosey x