Violet Crossley 11/11/2013

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I know Monday seems like a distant memory now but finally got round to writing it all up.

This pregnancy was my third and after some additional growth scans due to my age I discovered our baby was breech. I decided I'd try seeing if they could turn the baby via ECV and leave things to run up to 40 weeks as that was the date I'd been advised to go up until with being an older mum - I'm 42. Unfortunately the ECV was unsuccessful and also painful but I provisionally booked in for a second attempt the following week. I had to have a scan on the 8/11 as a follow up to the earlier ECV and also to check the position of baby at that stage. Bubs was still breech but the doctor told me that her growth was starting to slow down and that they would recommend a section the following week.

I was a bit worried in case I went into labour over the weekend but was told I would be ok and that they would attempt a breech vaginal delivery if needed. I was secretly hoping I would last the weekend out. I had the pre-op bloods done on Sunday morning and was ready to go for Monday 11th November.

Unsurprisingly I had a poor night's sleep on Sunday 10th and was awake from 5am. I had to be at the hospital for between 7:30 and 8am. We arrived at the hospital for around 7:30. I had all my vitals taken and we were then just waiting for triage and to see if there were any emergencies that needed sorting first. Fortunately there weren't and I was really pleased to hear that I was first on the list.

By the time I went down to the anaesthetic room it was about 9:30. My OH had been led away to get his scrubs on. I was feeling scared as I had no idea what the spinal injections were going to be like and that was making me feel a bit frightened. It took three attempts to get a cannula in my hand so that wasn't a great start and proved to be a good distraction.

When they came to do the spinal injections there were going to be two: one for the initial 2 hour spinal and another for the epidural top up. The epidural wasn't playing ball and it took then three attempt to find a spot in my back that wasn't full of veins. Luckily on the third attempt they had success!! The spinal itself went in without the same drama. Then I was ready to go!

They laid me flat and told me that I would start to feel a tingling sensation in my feet. This gradually spread up my body and the anaesthetist checked various bits of my body were unable to feel a cold spray compared to and un-numbed area. After about 10 minutes I was numb up to the chest and ready to go. They put up a sheet to block the "view" and then it all started. As my hospital is a teaching hospital there were a few students who asked if they could sit in on the op and I was fine with that. The doctor commenced the op and was only a couple of minutes in when there was a bit of pandemonium. One of the students had passed out whilst trying to get out of theatre as she felt faint and had knocked herself out on a trolley in the way down to the ground.

Fortunately the op continued as planned. Within only about 5 minutes I could here a new baby crying. Our new baby Violet Crossley had been born at 10:22 weighing 7lb 9oz. They asked my OH if he wanted to cut the cord but he wasn't up for going it a go or he thought he might have passed out too! There seemed to be ages before Chris (my OH) brought our new baby girl over to my side of the sheeting so I could see her for the first time. She was gorgeous and I felt really quite emotional. I wanted to do skin to skin with her but because she was quite blue when she came out it wasn't an immediate option so we decided to save that for when we got back to the ward. Two doctors sewed my up which took a good half and hour during which time they were merrily chatting away about what they had been doing at the weekend which was rather surreal. Eventually I was all sewed up and was wheeled back to the maternity wars with Violet where we had the chance to get to know each other properly for the first time.

I couldn't believe it was all over! It was such a different experience to my previous two births but I was glad everything was OK and I had finally got to meet my little kick boxer! I was so ready for a drink though having not had anything to drink since 6:00am and the cup of tea that followed was the best ever!! xxx
 
Lovely story! Hilarious that the medical student fainted!!
Are you home now?
 
Congrats! Lovely birth story! My surgeons were the same! So weird but calming! Xxx
 
lol oh bless that poor student! Congratulations hun, glad it all went well (for you, at least!) x
 
Lovely story! Hilarious that the medical student fainted!!
Are you home now?

Yes Fliss. I came home on Tuesday night. Breastfeeding has been going better since I got home but Violet's weight has dropped 11%. It sounds as though I haven't been feeding her enough. Needing to step up the feeding and got upset when the midwife was here. Feeling much happier since we have had a chat and I have finally been offered some useful advice. I'd forgotten how much hard work it was. I just hope she starts to put some weight back on. :s xxx
 
Ahh lovely story dotty and definitely a funny experience and story to tell violet about the student nurse :)

Can't believe you were home so quick too - I think my hospital is a min 2 night stay which dreading to be honest!!

Sorry your upset about the feeding but hopefully now you've got the advice you'll feel better soon.

Congrats again xxx
 
Thanks hun! Looking forward to hearing your story too! good luck for Monday! xxx
 
Congratulations - she's beautiful. I've been keeping an eye on your situ, as I'm nearly the same as you - 2 older boys, baby girl on the way (tho not breech thankfully!) & I'm 41. I'm well jel - mine was due 7th Nov (16th by my dates) & I'm still waiting! Induction Tue (I'd much prefer to start naturally). Anyway, as I said she's beautiful, congrats & enjoy copious cuddles :)) xx
 
Awww, lovely to read your birth story, glad it all went well and hope you didn't giggle too much at the student! They will be suffering at the hands of other students for weeks for that one haha.

Best wishes xx
 
Congratulations - she's beautiful. I've been keeping an eye on your situ, as I'm nearly the same as you - 2 older boys, baby girl on the way (tho not breech thankfully!) & I'm 41. I'm well jel - mine was due 7th Nov (16th by my dates) & I'm still waiting! Induction Tue (I'd much prefer to start naturally). Anyway, as I said she's beautiful, congrats & enjoy copious cuddles :)) xx

Aw thanks hun! How old are your boys? Sorry you're having to be induced hun. I'd have preferred that to having a section but needs must if it's time to get bubs out. There's still time for things to kick off over the weekend for you. Get reading up on some of those old wives tales!! xxx
 
Congratulations - she's beautiful. I've been keeping an eye on your situ, as I'm nearly the same as you - 2 older boys, baby girl on the way (tho not breech thankfully!) & I'm 41. I'm well jel - mine was due 7th Nov (16th by my dates) & I'm still waiting! Induction Tue (I'd much prefer to start naturally). Anyway, as I said she's beautiful, congrats & enjoy copious cuddles :)) xx

Aw thanks hun! How old are your boys? Sorry you're having to be induced hun. I'd have preferred that to having a section but needs must if it's time to get bubs out. There's still time for things to kick off over the weekend for you. Get reading up on some of those old wives tales!! xxx

Mine are 11 & 8 - sometimes I think I must be mad doing it all again, but my partner doesn't have any kids, so this is last chance saloon really!! I know you were worried about your section, but operations these days are much better than they were... Plus you're a braver lady than me at even contemplating birthing bottom 1st!! Induction worries me after my 1st boy, I ended up with episiotomy, ventouse, epi & that's not mentioning taking bloods from his head 3 times & nearly pulling his head off to get him out!! I think we all have our worries! We've def tried a few ways to start proceedings ;) but it's not started anything, nor did the attempted sweep on Tue - it's all well & good them bringing dates forward at scans, but my cycle is like clockwork & obv my date is more accurate than theirs - but that's not gonna help me with the induction timings (I really would like her to come naturally). Anyways, I'll stop rambling, well done you on being so courageous & please send some of that bravery my way :) xx
 
Congratulations!! Hope you are both doing well x
 
Teehee that poor student! Congratulations again dotty, hope your baby girl js settling in well :)
 
Yayyy great birth story bump buddy!

Congratulations again to you, chris and the boys on their little sister, she is just scrummy

Glad the weight is going back on now after than big loss, your doing a great job xx
 
What a nice story - glad it all went so well x that poor student will literally never live that down, poor girl
 
Aww Dotty lovely birth story! She is gorgeous you must be so proud! Tell me, what size clothes did you use first in the end? I know you had a last minute dash for newborn size after your growth scan? xxx
 
Hi Rednursie. Thanks hun! I still can't believe she's here and she's ours. I'm feeling a very lucky mum. I just bought a pack of 3 New Baby sleepsuits and a few new baby vests. Our friends and family have bought us a few items and some of these are new baby size so only bought a small amount in the end. I'm glad I'm didn't buy much too because Vi is already filling out the newborn size especially seeing as she was bigger than the growth scan predicted. I have put her in some of the 0-3 month stuff but most of it is a bit too big but doesn't look too silly xxx
 
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Aww you sound smitten Dotty! And who could blame you she's a little stunner. Thanks for the info, oh and I had a very long debate in sizes when we were in Primark buying vests lol! Think ill mainly get 0-3's though with maybe one or 2 packs if new born :-) I hope your healing well Dotty xxxx
 

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