floridagirl
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Hi there,
I only have my D&C next Thursday (so its VERY early to be asking this question really) But after lossing a baby does everyone still want to try for another????? or is anyone too scared?????
I was trying for ages and when we finally got a positive test we was crying with delight and so excited!!!! two weeks later my sickness started, it was so bad I was in hospital for a week. Not only was I feeling sick but I was really ill, I slept or was sick all day. My poor husband had to juggle work, kids and house hold duties.
It really was the most unpleasent few months ever (I have got two other children and I did have morning sickness with them but that was nothing to what I had this time round)
As I hit 12 weeks I felt so much better, then had my scan on Wednesday to find out the baby had died. Its like I went through all that illness for nothing and I am scared that if I get pregnant again I will be really ill again then just go and loose it again!!
I really want another baby and the thought of never giving birth or holding a new born baby again rips me apart but can I put my family through this again??? I am 36 and my mum had told me that I am TOO OLD and thats why I was so ill (but surly not)
I would just like to know how long after loosing a baby did anyone contemplate trying again? xxxxxx
I only have my D&C next Thursday (so its VERY early to be asking this question really) But after lossing a baby does everyone still want to try for another????? or is anyone too scared?????
I was trying for ages and when we finally got a positive test we was crying with delight and so excited!!!! two weeks later my sickness started, it was so bad I was in hospital for a week. Not only was I feeling sick but I was really ill, I slept or was sick all day. My poor husband had to juggle work, kids and house hold duties.
It really was the most unpleasent few months ever (I have got two other children and I did have morning sickness with them but that was nothing to what I had this time round)
As I hit 12 weeks I felt so much better, then had my scan on Wednesday to find out the baby had died. Its like I went through all that illness for nothing and I am scared that if I get pregnant again I will be really ill again then just go and loose it again!!
I really want another baby and the thought of never giving birth or holding a new born baby again rips me apart but can I put my family through this again??? I am 36 and my mum had told me that I am TOO OLD and thats why I was so ill (but surly not)
I would just like to know how long after loosing a baby did anyone contemplate trying again? xxxxxx