My friend is a right little Barbie, VERY girly and wanted a girl so much - when she found out she was having a boy she was so depressed she was off work for 3 days and was in a kind of denial about it (she even bought a few girls outfits just incase the scan was wrong!) and when he was born she struggled to bond and suffered PND. But she has gone on to be a brilliant mum and they adore each other, he has cracking hair do's and is stylishly dressed and all is good! Don't feel bad about being disappointed, you can't help how you feel and what your gut feelings are - but at least now you've got 5 months to get yourself excited about a boy before he gets here
, Also my friend went on to have a girl a few years later so you've got plenty of time to have your girl.
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