TTC on hold!

[lrb]

Found out this week why the other half has been having pains in his chest and groin! He has been having mini heart attacks and had to have an ECG Thursday!
Such a worry and I haven't helped me being sick and calling him to do things constantly! Anyway he has a week of work and told to relax!
Whatever I do or say makes him angry and stress out! I don't mean to and don't even know I'm Doing it. He threatened for me to go to my mums last night when I was throwing up cause I was causing him pain! Feel so guilty but would never wanna cause him pain! :/
So thinking ttc is only adding more stress so gonna not mention a thing this month! Af came a few days ago anyway so I need him to get better!

X

 

[cosmicgirl]

So sorry to hear that hun, hope he gets better soon and you can get back on track xx

 

[Kezzamunster]

Oh hun, sorry to hear this. Hope your OH makes a speedy recovery & things get back on track



xxxx

 

[lrb]

He's only 21 aswell :/

 

[Kezzamunster]

Omg he's a youngster Did they say what caused them?

xxx

 

[Princess81]

How scary! hope both of you are in the mend very soon xx

 

[FebMum2Be]

Oh no, I hope he makes a speedy recovery x

 

[xshauna_bazx]

Hope he is better soon xxx

 

[mustard]

hope you feel better soon. Feel free to come and join the girls in 'waiting to try' and we will keep you company while your OH gets better and you can start trying again.

 

[Spinneygirl]

So sorry hunni hope hes on the mend soon, do they know whats caused it? xxx

 

[LouiseB]

Oh gosh

I hope you are alright, but don't blame yourself.

You getting on his nerves won't have caused his medical condition, but it might cause his to be short tempered with you.

Maybe it wouldn't be such a bad idea for you to give him some space while he recovers though? You can still visit him

 

[Nurse 26]

oh my goodness that sounds terrible, hope you both feel bettersoon. xx

 

[lrb]

They have said it sounds like stress. There's still a lot going on with family, wether the house we live in belongs to us or his uncle and what's gonna happen! So is all very strressful on everyone but seems to have affected him harder. He has threatened in last two days that I go stay with my mum whilst I'm ill cause he can't cope. But my mum isn't a very well woman and can't be around sick people so for him to say that he must be in a lot of pain or very selfish.
Thanks for support girls
Helps just to let it all out and tell Someone!

 

[jomc]

oh you poor thing... wishing you both lots of good health xxx

 

[star fish]

He must be fairly scared, I'm sure if it is selfish then it would only be because he doesnt want to die just yet! How ill are you? Can you not pull yourself up by your boot straps and take care of him for a little bit regardless of feeling unwell? I really feel for you both, I'm always paranoid about putting far too much on my husband, he does everything for us and I do so little in comparison, I'm sure he'll have a heart attack in his forties if I dont help him more.....

 

[lrb]

I'm better now so things are different. I has that 48 hour bug that's going round where everytime i stood up I was sick, so really was no help to him at all, especially when I was peeing and being sick at the same time haha!
He's had more pains yday n today so is a constant worry but he even gets them when he's watching tv :/!
Thanks 4 support guys x