Hi all, back on here after having my first child 4 years ago. Now 4 weeks preg. My & OH talked about telling ppl & I said its best we wait until 12weeks n he agreed. Earlier this week he said he wanted to tell evrty1 so I said tell ur work n we will tell all our family in due course. Told his grandparents today at a family birthday, whilst there I noticed his brother keep staring at me, so when we got home I asked if he had told him n at first he lied then admitted he had told him Friday. I am angry as this is sonething we were going to do together, because I yelled at him his reply was do what I want as we would be unfit parents with the way I've acted. I feel that I should stand my ground on this one as I feel he has gone behind my back. What do you ladies think please?