Amanda W
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Hey everyone okay so i known this lad for a whille but i never knew that he liked me in that way,anyway we got chatting and we have agreed to start seeing each other (not in a serouise relationship just seeing each other) anyway we have both come out of a bad relationship and we have both have been cheated on so we can relate to how we feel he brought up a child as his own and still sees her etc.So i thought well lets see how Alisha likes you she took to him straight away and has called him dada 3 times this week i was well shocked 
because she does not even call her dad dada (he has her every saturday) anyway because i thought relle the babys dad should know and seeing as we are fine etc i thought here go nothing and i told him.....big mistake he started drinking whilst i chatting to him (he never does that not in the day 12ish anyway) i explained that we was taking our time to get to know each other etc and mainly cos of alisha so i was being a adult and he went of the rails at me then his eldest son started saying i was a heartless bitch.I dont understand well ok i understand i know it must be hard for him to see that iam over him and that iam with someone but at the same time he should not have cheated on me 4years i thought our little family was perfect.Ive put everyone in the picture including my parents they have the met the lad and they seem to like him and even my bro likes him and more importanly alisha likes him ive explained to the lad that Ian will always be her daddy and he said he knows he understands and that he wont rub it in Ians face meaning being with me.We are going that slow we havent even kissed so thats gotta show people really.I do feel kinda mean because dont get me wrong great dad to the baby hes just a ******* with me even thou he did the dirty on me twice ( just found out amazing what u find out after a year down the line) am i doing the wrong thing or is he gonna be like this for the rest of my life,but hes got someone on the side as well a girl hes being meeting up with so i just cant get my head around it all uggghhh men!!! 
because she does not even call her dad dada (he has her every saturday) anyway because i thought relle the babys dad should know and seeing as we are fine etc i thought here go nothing and i told him.....big mistake he started drinking whilst i chatting to him (he never does that not in the day 12ish anyway) i explained that we was taking our time to get to know each other etc and mainly cos of alisha so i was being a adult and he went of the rails at me then his eldest son started saying i was a heartless bitch.I dont understand well ok i understand i know it must be hard for him to see that iam over him and that iam with someone but at the same time he should not have cheated on me 4years i thought our little family was perfect.Ive put everyone in the picture including my parents they have the met the lad and they seem to like him and even my bro likes him and more importanly alisha likes him ive explained to the lad that Ian will always be her daddy and he said he knows he understands and that he wont rub it in Ians face meaning being with me.We are going that slow we havent even kissed so thats gotta show people really.I do feel kinda mean because dont get me wrong great dad to the baby hes just a ******* with me even thou he did the dirty on me twice ( just found out amazing what u find out after a year down the line) am i doing the wrong thing or is he gonna be like this for the rest of my life,but hes got someone on the side as well a girl hes being meeting up with so i just cant get my head around it all uggghhh men!!!
