natashateale
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Hi
I'll start at the begining
My dad left my mum when i was 1 and he carried on seeing me till i was 4and then just stopped. I never heard any thing till i was 11 when i saw him a few times after writting to each other for a month or so. Then me and mum my my step dad moved but i left him a number and an address but didnt here any thing. When i had my daughter i let him know but i got a couple of txts then nothing. That was at 17. I am now 20 and recently we saw each other at a funeral and at the wake he came and spoke to me. (After everything i was convinced i wanted nothing to do with him) he gave me a speach about hes sorry and it was all him and doesnt expect me to want to keep in touch but he wants to. Anyway he gave me his address so if i wanted to write to him i could. But i dont know if i want to. Does he deserve it? Why after 16 what makes now any diff to when i was 11 or 17.
I was wondering if any of you have any advice please. Xx
I'll start at the begining
My dad left my mum when i was 1 and he carried on seeing me till i was 4and then just stopped. I never heard any thing till i was 11 when i saw him a few times after writting to each other for a month or so. Then me and mum my my step dad moved but i left him a number and an address but didnt here any thing. When i had my daughter i let him know but i got a couple of txts then nothing. That was at 17. I am now 20 and recently we saw each other at a funeral and at the wake he came and spoke to me. (After everything i was convinced i wanted nothing to do with him) he gave me a speach about hes sorry and it was all him and doesnt expect me to want to keep in touch but he wants to. Anyway he gave me his address so if i wanted to write to him i could. But i dont know if i want to. Does he deserve it? Why after 16 what makes now any diff to when i was 11 or 17.
I was wondering if any of you have any advice please. Xx