Symptom spotters anonymous lol

[lillith112]

Good luck Charlotte x

Went back to the hospital yday, had a scan. They said its an 'incomplete' MC, basically still had tissue left inside, she said ill probably pass it within a few days and to take a HPT in 2 weeks. Shes calling me after 2 cos shes trying to see if she can help my testing etc speed up.
She sent the fetus to the lab for testing, she said theres more of a %% it wont work because baby stopped growing at 5+6. So its really small.
Completely drained physically and emotionally. Idk why this has to happen to me. It isn't fair. Blahhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Aww Peanut I feel for you, did they not offer you a D&C ?. I really hope your little one can be tested and give you some answers as to why this is happening. Life is so unfair, thinking of you. xx

 

[Crazycatwoman]

Peanut, hope your ok. I really sorry your having such a hard time. Lots hugs xxx

I phoned the hospital for my results. My levels were 58 amazing result. I ovulated x

 

[Bobbideeboo]

hello ladies,

hope you don't mind me popping my head in

Just wanted to wish you all luck in your journeys.

Charlotte - i received your booties today, they have been blessed and sent back out to you first class this afternoon. I hope they bring you some luck!

love and dust to you all

D xx

 

[MrsD2703]

Woohoo!! Great news hayley!! Im just about to go in for my smear test which is not ideal with my cm etc! Oh well. Im sure they have seen it all anuway x

 

[Leighwiltshire]

mrsD i started with a cold! when i first fell pregnant

 

[Charlotte9]

hello ladies,

hope you don't mind me popping my head in

Just wanted to wish you all luck in your journeys.

Charlotte - i received your booties today, they have been blessed and sent back out to you first class this afternoon. I hope they bring you some luck!

love and dust to you all

D xx

Omg!!! Thank you so much! Yay so happy! Can't wait to receive them

 

[Charlotte9]

Peanut, its heartbreaking. You will get there one day. Hope you have strength to continue.

xx

 

[Charlotte9]

Great news Hayley! You ovulated yay! I bet you are very happy with results. xx

 

[Charlotte9]

Ok here are my results from this mornings docs appointment.

Doc was very nice as always. Very chatty.

He basically said Ive completed every possible test, scan and done laparoscopy. Oh did his sperm test. He put everything together and he can't understand why Im TTC for over 15 cycles.

Everything inside me looks perfect! and My Ohs sperm results are excellent. All his figures are double of whats required.

The only reason he said could be is Im too healthy. I need to relax and have a glass of wine. But I don't drink. Im sober for 5 years. There is no way I will start drinking to get pregnant.

He said medically Im perfect and there is nothing else needs to be done. I said that I will try homepathy and he said definitely! Its highly effective.

My body is calm according to tests, but my brain is stressed so he suggested to look into relaxation sessions: massages, swimming, travelling, reflexology. Anything that relaxes.

Also he suggested to leave opks alone cause there is no need. His said try sex on 9,11,13 and 15 days and its all you need to do.

So in the end he said he can't explain to why Im still TTC.

I also found out my FSH. Its 8.5. Very good

So girls Im now looking into relaxation sessions at least 1-2x a month. I will also do Bowen.

Oh and doc also mentioned home insemination ha ha, I was like WHAT? Yes he said that way you inject sperm straight into uterus. Lesbians use it. Hm not sure about this one. I don't mind trying to be honest. Or at least put my legs against the wall for 15 min after each sexy time to help the little swimmers.

xx

 

[PeanutButter]

Chartlotte thats great news! FX that 2017 will be your year!

Me and hubby have decided to go back to NTNP for a while. No opks etc. But i am going back on my dieting in the new year.
Tbf when i was preg i lost a couple lbs because of healthy eating and no appetite.
Ive actually looked into adoption this morning. It says you need to have stopped trying for 12 months before you can apply... but thats far in future anyway. x

 

[Charlotte9]

Peanut thank you glad you are feeling a bit better.

I agree no opks, enjoy sex whenever you feel like.

Healthy diet is so beneficial. All Ive done is cut out everything that contains soya. Every supermarket biscuit has it.

Its so bad for hormones. What is that you like to eat and struggle to let go?

xx

 

[MrsD2703]

Charlotte so happy to hear that xx

 

[maybe baby]

Hi Charlotte,

You're not meant to inject sperm straight into the uterus. It can be dangerous! Only washed sperm can go into the uterus.

Google ici vs iui.

Good luck and lots of luck to you all ttc!

I'll be back ttc in Jan/Feb.

Xx

 

[Kizzy1981]

Great news Charlotte. I believe all this stress stuff - last cycle was the first one I couldn't stress about it because oh had sperm test and we had to abstain around peak time. I can tell you exactly the 3 days we BD too - CD11, CD14 and CD16. FF thinks I ovulated on CD17 which is a touch later than normal but about right. Come on. You can do this!!!

Great result Hayley! This could be the month!!!

All of you testing early... I got NOTHING on a test until I was already late. Did several early tests and nothing at all. Even at 2 days late it wasn't this blazing line. Maybe half the strength of the control line.

GP appointment this morning.

:babydust: for you all

 

[Charlotte9]

Hi Charlotte,

You're not meant to inject sperm straight into the uterus. It can be dangerous! Only washed sperm can go into the uterus.

Google ici vs iui.

Good luck and lots of luck to you all ttc!

I'll be back ttc in Jan/Feb.

Xx

Oh no what happened? I hope you are OK lovely.

I would not inject sperm into me cause its awful. Oh said he will go a bit deeper and then I will hold my legs upaagainst the wall to help the little swimmers. X

 

[Charlotte9]

Kizzy, I think there is something about stress.

I found another Bowen clinic very close to me. 20 min drive. Manchester is way too far for me. I'm in Colchester.

Ive decided to start reflexology too. Can I mix these too? X

 

[Crazycatwoman]

Morning girls,

Hope everyone is ok!
Charlotte, keep positive. You have come this far, it will happen xxxxx

I'm full cold this morning, sore nose, bloody snot.
Bfn this morning @ 10 dpo
AF due Tuesday x

Restlessness night, 4 hours sound sleep, 4 hours restlessness ( Fitbit )
Weird dreams too x

You ok maybe? Xx

 

[Kizzy1981]

Charlotte I don't know. Best asking both. I know when I first went for Bowen for my back she wouldn't treat me while I was still having physio saying some techniques worked against each other. But I think reflexology works in a very similar way so might be ok?

 

[Kizzy1981]

Charlotte I don't know. Best asking both. I know when I first went for Bowen for my back she wouldn't treat me while I was still having physio saying some techniques worked against each other. But I think reflexology works in a very similar way so might be ok?

 

[stacesl3]

Morning Ladies,

Charlotte, good to hear all was well with your appointment. Hopefully your BFP is just around the corner!! Reflexology is so relaxing, I could quite easily fall asleep when I have it.
Hayley, good news that you are ovulating!!

Hope all you pregnant ladies are doing well And hoping for more bfp's soon!

So it looks like I wont even be getting to dtd this cycle, OH has had to go away for work (last minute thing) and not back until Monday so bang smack in my fertile time!!!!! I'm gutted, I could actually cry! I cant afford to skip months its not like I have loads of time on my side!!! I am so fed up right now, it will be 4 years in February, sometimes think I should just give up!