Symptom spotters anonymous lol

[elsa16]

Charlotte I have friends who keep telling me the same. Even if it's true it's such an annoying thing to be told. Particularly when said friends were obsessive TTC friends with broken hearts whenever AF arrived!

Of course we would think about something else if we could. It would be great to switch off from it. Just wish I knew how!!

I'm thinking I need some kind of project or a new goal or something xx

 

[Charlotte9]

Omg girls you agree with me then!

I love this graphical illustration with water! Its so true!!! Negative attracts negative. Positive attracts positive.

Unfortunately I don't drink at all or smoke. What a shame. I quit 5 years ago.

I would love to learn to meditate and quiet my mind down. Try yourself and see how busy your mind is.

When I close my eyes I have 1000 going in circles in my mind. Its crazy how busy my mind is.

xx

 

[Clover]

Morning girls
So I've been absent a while, a lot has happened ...I just wanted to come back on today because it is my baby's due date and it got me thinking of all you lovely girls
I will have a lot to catch up on!!!
I hope to be around more and hopefully see loads more Bfps

Saw this rainbow this morning and I think it was a sign...hopefully of things to come for us all

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[Eryinera]

Clover my lovely x big hugs x

 

[Eryinera]

Charlotte I used to meditate a lot it really can help x It was difficult at first but gets easier... or maybe that's coz there's not a lot going on in my head cavity

 

[Emily0505]

Charlotte, if you can't get TTC out of your mind then maybe take up something like knitting or crochet and start making things for baby like a nice blanket or some booties or something? If you're anything like me then you'll never be able to stop thinking about TTC, I tried but it ruled my life for nearly two years! But at least that way you'll be doing something positive and proactive in regards to TTC and getting ready for baby rather than thinking negatively about TTC.

I'm not altogether convinced with this positive thinking business as I was feeling really bad about TTC and still managed to fall pregnant. With this pregnancy I've been convinced I'll miscarry again and yet it's all going well. I also think that sometimes feeling that you must think a certain way adds to the pressure and then you feel guilty if you're having a bad day.

I think that you just need to do whatever works for you. If you are very much into positive thinking then I would suggest reading Marissa Peer as she has a book all about positive thinking and fertility.

XX

 

[Emily0505]

Clover, due dates are always hard.

I hope that today isn't too difficult for you.

I always light a candle for my angels on their due date.



XX

 

[Charlotte9]

Gail, what a beautiful rainbow. So glad to see you back! How are you doing? Anything new has happened? x

 

[Eryinera]

Agreed it has to be something you believe in I've been dreading the worst throughout this pregnancy too and do far all is good. I am very science minded and try to think of rational reasons rather than spiritual ones I'm also a huge skeptic lol. Hence the stress hormone influence imthat I've tried to avoid this time round. But then as I told my may mummies I'm weird. Lol. I've seen ghosts I've predicted things that have later come to be and told people before it happened etc my working theory is quantum mechanics lol. That stuff is wacky crazy! Lol. You need to find something that works for you even if it's just something that gives up.

The only people that I've known that haven't reached their dreams are those that gave up on them x

 

[Charlotte9]

Emily, thank you for for your help.

I do photography and I draw in Photoshop. It used to relax me. But now since I can photograph with my eyes shut then it does not relax me anymore.

I have adult colouring book I bought yeas ago and never started it. Got 2 sets of colouring pencils too. I will start it today. 15 main a day and see how I feel after. Colours at very therapeutic and realaxing.

xx

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[Charlotte9]

Emily, thank you for for your help.

I do photography and I draw in Photoshop. It used to relax me. But now since I can photograph with my eyes shut then it does not relax me anymore.

I have adult colouring book I bought yeas ago and never started it. Got 2 sets of colouring pencils too. I will start it today. 15 min a day and see how I feel after. Colours at very therapeutic and realaxing.

xx

I thoug

 

[Emily0505]

I've got a few adult colouring books too. I do find them relaxing (unless I go outside of the lines, then I get cross! Lol!)

Knitting a blanket was the one positive step I took with this pregnancy right from the start. I taught myself to knit using YouTube so I'm limited to squares only as I can't read a pattern or anything!

XX

 

[Eryinera]

Sod the adult colouring books they are hard I'm happy enough with the kids ones

 

[Charlotte9]

I've got a few adult colouring books too. I do find them relaxing (unless I go outside of the lines, then I get cross! Lol!)

Knitting a blanket was the one positive step I took with this pregnancy right from the start. I taught myself to knit using YouTube so I'm limited to squares only as I can't read a pattern or anything!

XX

Did you start knitting before you got pregnant? I'm better at crocheting than knotting. I used go chechet puffy little cushion hearts. I loved it. X

 

[Charlotte9]

Eeekkk yay! Bobbideerboo has agreed to bless my yellow baby booties!!!

Yippeee

 

[Eryinera]

Yay good news hun x x x

 

[Emily0505]

I started after my mc can't remember if it was the first or second loss though.

I tried to crochet but just couldn't get the hang of it! Lol!

XX

 

[Sunnydays]

I'm feeling pants today. I'm floored with fatigue, backache and dizziness, it's constant. Bfn on ic just now, but wasnt fmu. I'm 11dpo so guess only time will tell.

 

[PeanutButter]

Ugh adult colouring books stress me out xD I need to do it all in one sitting and I get bored but I have to finish it aha.
Yay charlotte yellow booties hope they work for you! X
I'd love to be able to knit! Would piss me off trying to learn though.
Had a bad day at work. A guy was a cu*t best way to describe him. He went mental at me because there was steak in the tikka box (subway) and just being anice absolute prick. So I told him I'm not serving him and asked someone else to, he the went mental at the other person. So we all said get out and he wouldn't and idk why but he targetedme with insults and started throwing shit. I told him I was phoning the police but he left after I said that. Then had some cramping idk why but it hurt. *******. He's banned from subway now. If he comes in I'm not even going to acknowledge he's even there, fking cu*t. Told my boss I'm not taking anyone's shit while I'm pregnant. My colleges know I'm pregnant and didn't even help me.

 

[Charlotte9]

Emily, did you find knitting relaxing? I like this idea. x

Peanut, wow what a day sweetie. Really nasty prick. Hope you are OK. How come your colleaques did not help you ?

Not long and you will go on maternity leave