HeppiBean
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Right I'll start with the easier one. Christmas.
Cescas' father told me a few weeks ago that he was working on christmas day, so my OH and I have made plans assuming that we would have Cesca the whold day. I heard from FOBs Mum today that FOB isn't working all day and wants to see Cesca at his Mums' in the afternoon. I've had no word from FOB and don't want to be away from Cesca at christmas unless she is with her Dad. I feel so strongly on this as I lost my Mum last christmas and I truly believe that Cesca will be the only thing to stop me totally breaking down... FOB has shown no interest in seeing her over christmas this year (else surely he'd have spoken to me before now) and only saw her for 5 minutes last year...
Advice?
The second thing is about residency.
FOB and I agreed that Cesca would live with me, there was nop argument/disagreement, he didn't want Cesca with him. But...
Recently he's been really funny about contact. One minute he's understanding and flexible, the next he's an a**e who expects me to bend over backward so he can see Cesca.
I'd like to go for a full residency order with court arranged times/places for contact. So he can stop messing me about. Does anyone know how I could go about doing this and how much it would cost?
Sorry there is one more quick thing...
The grandparents (on FOBs side) are starting to get very pushy, and making unreasonable assumptions regarding when they see Francesca. (For example I had a full blown argument today about FOBs Mum having Cesca on christmas day). I want something done about it. But I don't know what I can do..... Help?
Thanks girls xx
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Cescas' father told me a few weeks ago that he was working on christmas day, so my OH and I have made plans assuming that we would have Cesca the whold day. I heard from FOBs Mum today that FOB isn't working all day and wants to see Cesca at his Mums' in the afternoon. I've had no word from FOB and don't want to be away from Cesca at christmas unless she is with her Dad. I feel so strongly on this as I lost my Mum last christmas and I truly believe that Cesca will be the only thing to stop me totally breaking down... FOB has shown no interest in seeing her over christmas this year (else surely he'd have spoken to me before now) and only saw her for 5 minutes last year...
Advice?
The second thing is about residency.
FOB and I agreed that Cesca would live with me, there was nop argument/disagreement, he didn't want Cesca with him. But...
Recently he's been really funny about contact. One minute he's understanding and flexible, the next he's an a**e who expects me to bend over backward so he can see Cesca.
I'd like to go for a full residency order with court arranged times/places for contact. So he can stop messing me about. Does anyone know how I could go about doing this and how much it would cost?
Sorry there is one more quick thing...
The grandparents (on FOBs side) are starting to get very pushy, and making unreasonable assumptions regarding when they see Francesca. (For example I had a full blown argument today about FOBs Mum having Cesca on christmas day). I want something done about it. But I don't know what I can do..... Help?
Thanks girls xx
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