So Rude!!!!!

[lulu]

Is it just me or are people getting so rude!!!

On Monday at work I was in the kitchen with this women who was making tea for everyone. I have not worked in the drugs rehab dept for that long, as some of you know, maybe a months or so. Anyway I have never had a conversation with her just around her but always said hello etc etc.

She turned to me and said 'I didn't realise you were pregnant, i thought it was just baby fat'!!!

I haven't been able to get it out my head since. And I know for sure that I have had conversations around her with other people about the baby and pregnancy!!!

If you look in the 'tummy pics' thread (Quite a recent post)is it not obvious!!!??? I am a size 16 but a curvy one not so much round but I have always had a problem with my image so I was quite upset over it.

And today, I have a very obvious bump and so many people were staring at me when I was out, one women just stayed focused on my bump as she walked past.

People don't smile though they just look at you like your a freak!!!

 

[nickilubs]

What a Biaaaatch!

Ohhh I cant wait till my bump arrives! I'm gonna get me some stares! I cant even answer my door or telephone without getting asked "Is Mummy or Daddy about" So when people see the bump I am expecting big negative reactions!

 

[NickyB]

OMG, your bump is very obviously a baby! I just went back for another look! And it's lovely too btw... can't wait to get like that.

Crazy, she's probably just jealous and having a little dig. It makes some people better to make a little snide comment. Just ignore her!

 

[Rachel]

What a bitch!!

I've just had a look at your bump pics and it's obvious it's baby. Wish my bump was like that

Try and ignore her

 

[ASD123456]

Bloody hell, some people are so rude!!!

I've noticed the staring t bump thing aswell, it really really annoys me!

Alex xxx

 

[lfc_sarah]

 

[Geordie&Bairn]

What a nasty women
id have wanted to

for that
god some people are so insensitive
no its not even that just plan out and our rude and dont care thier being offensivei am more then sure that you and your bump look beautiful
take no notice of her love she's not worth it

sarah

 

[Gem212]

OMG Im sooooo hormonal it makes me feel like coming to your work and telling her a few home truths!! there is always someone like that in a workplace!

Truth be known she is probably jealous, just ignore her!!

x x x

 

[Jade&Evie]

I know how you feel- I am only 5'2" and 19 so people look at me and stare all the time. I've got used to ignoring it now- at the end of the day in 8 weeks I will have a cute little bubba for people to stare at! Plus, on my last day at work a bloke was staring at bump when she decided to start moving and he was treated to my stomach moving VERY obviously! That stopped him staring!

It is rude but then I wonder if I used to stare at bumps before I was pregnant and didn't realise!

 

[kabey]

Yep... I'm 18 and only 5"0 so I'm sure when I get bigger (if I don't fall over), people will give me VERY nasty looks!

But u have to remember that most people criticise out of jealousy.

I can't believe how that woman spoke to you though, pregnant or not! It's absolutely disgraceful. Grrr, I'm really riled now! At least u can always rant on here

xx

 

[millylillyrose]

maybe its just us pregnant women....I find some people are SO SO rude and i feel so irrational for feeling negative toward people. My sister is driving me nuts, every time she speaks to me i want to smack her in the face. (she is being difficult though, its not all me i hope.)